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Daddy+Mommy=Them 18 kids; Lead Hill, Arkansas 4314 posts
24th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BBNO5NTHEOVEN:</b>" Update? Has he said anything?"</blockquote>




He has said yes he was talking inappropriatitly with her, but it hasn't went any further than that. At first he said he didn't think what e had done was wrong, but I said look at it this way had I talked to a guy like that how would you feel an what would you think? He said he would feel and think same thing as me. I know I shouldn't accept it, but we are gonna try it one more go. Maybe even when he eats home see a counselor. I've just been divorced before and now after thinking about it would rather not divorce and trying to see if it can work. However, with that being said one more screw up and it's done.

Mother Wolf Due August 28; 1 child; California 13522 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting Destiel:" sounds like he's living a double life."


This.



I would just call him out on it and ask about it and divorce his ass.

Daddy+Mommy=Them 18 kids; Lead Hill, Arkansas 4314 posts
3rd Feb '13

Well we are divorcing. On his promotion night he slept with someone and he just admitte it too me. He said he would give evey penny of his BAH to the kids and he is reenlisting so he can provide them with insurance. I've just it to get all my exams out of the way before I file paperwork.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
3rd Feb '13

I'm sorry. I am glad he fessed up to this. Good luck with all of this.

Daddy+Mommy=Them 18 kids; Lead Hill, Arkansas 4314 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chloe's mommy*:</b>" I'm sorry. I am glad he fessed up to this. Good luck with all of this."</blockquote>




I am too. This just happened Friday night and he told me tonight. I don't know why I'm not mad. In just so hurt and puzzled. I was praying it would t end up like this.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Daddy+Mommy=Them:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chloe's mommy*:</b>" I'm sorry. I am glad he fessed up to this. ... [snip!] ... and he told me tonight. I don't know why I'm not mad. In just so hurt and puzzled. I was praying it would t end up like this."


I got my divorce after being cheated on. I would have done EVERYTHING to make it work. I understand how this feels.

Daddy+Mommy=Them 18 kids; Lead Hill, Arkansas 4314 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chloe's mommy*:</b>" I got my divorce after being cheated on. I would have done EVERYTHING to make it work. I understand how this feels."</blockquote>




I have been trying and trying. I never wanted my kids to grow up in a spilt household. I love him, but I can't be hurt anymore.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
3rd Feb '13

It's better to be from a broken home than to live in one. It also takes two people wanting to make it work. I found out myself that one person can't hold the marriage and family together.
You are doing the right thing, he has consequences to the lies he's given you besides cheating.

Daddy+Mommy=Them 18 kids; Lead Hill, Arkansas 4314 posts
3rd Feb '13

I know and I have to do what's best for the kids. I will never take them from their dad. He may have screwed our marriage up, but he is a good dad.

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Daddy+Mommy=Them:" I know and I have to do what's best for the kids. I will never take them from their dad. He may have screwed our marriage up, but he is a good dad."


Mine too. I understand. My daughter still adores both of us and I am thankful that she has support and love from both of us.

lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
3rd Feb '13

That sucks! I'm so sorry :( Hopefully everything works out. I couldn't imagine going through this. I will be praying for your family

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lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
4th Feb '13

Oh sweetie :( I'm so sorry. I am glad he told you. Although it hurts it hurts worse to find out down the road. *hugs* good luck with eveything.