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Would you? XJS♡6.14 1 child; Panama City, Florida 379 posts
22nd Jan '13

Would you leave your DH if he was constantly saying mean things to your LO? Things like "you're such a wimp, you're the worst baby ever, stop being a little b***h, wtf is wrong with you?"

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56008 posts
22nd Jan '13

I would urge him to seek help



But if he didn't change, then yes, that is verbal abuse and I would leave

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22058 posts
status 22nd Jan '13

yes I would.

Arks Mama! ಠ_ಠ 1 child; Utah 2401 posts
22nd Jan '13

IF he didn't change his ways, then yes. Definitely.

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
22nd Jan '13

Yes.
In my opinion that is emotional abuse so if it didn't stop I would be gone.

Skitti 17 kids; Grand Haven Charter Township, Michigan 1508 posts
22nd Jan '13

I would try to sit down with him and ask him what compels him to do so. If it continued and progressively got worse, yep, I would.

Melissa Gilmore Due January 13 (boy); Michigan 46 posts
22nd Jan '13

In a heartbeat, that's verbal abuse. Doesn't matter that he doesn't understand him yet

Avian's Mommy!! 1 child; Levelland, Texas 3872 posts
22nd Jan '13

Of course I would...

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22058 posts
status 22nd Jan '13

Does he talk to you like that too?

Justine's Mama Due November 28 (boy); 1 child; Boynton Beach, Florida 1939 posts
22nd Jan '13

I would try to make him change first. Then if it didn't work yeah.

XJS♡6.14 1 child; Panama City, Florida 379 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Blythe.:" Does he talk to you like that too?"


He's never called me names, no. Lately he's had no patience with anything, and he's getting super annoyed with DS. He's only 7 months old.. it just breaks my heart.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
22nd Jan '13

Yes, I couldn't allow my child to be emotionally abused.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22058 posts
status 22nd Jan '13
Quoting XJS♡6.14:" He's never called me names, no. Lately he's had no patience with anything, and he's getting super annoyed with DS. He's only 7 months old.. it just breaks my heart."


If someone can speak to their own child like that I would be worried about what else might happen. :cry:

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
22nd Jan '13

I wouldn't put up with that. I would try family counseling first & give it at least a month or 2 to see if it helps him. If not, I'd be gone with LO in a heart beat!

XJS♡6.14 1 child; Panama City, Florida 379 posts
22nd Jan '13

This has been going on for a while now..you can look back at my old posts, but I'm definitely considering going home for a while. I just feel like if I go home I'm giving up on my marriage. This was the last thing I wanted to happen..