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    • is with my current SO. -- Votes: 92
    • is with myself. -- Votes: 9
    • I have never experienced sex feeling good. -- Votes: 1
MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
Jan 22nd '13
Quoting JessicaMatlock:):" he just isn't good. when we got together we waited to have sex and I fell in love with his personality ... [snip!] ... he's done I tend to just get my self off... but he's going to start getting into shape and hopefully it helps the sex life.."


Have you tried talking about it? One of the reasons DH and I's sex life is so good is because we are completely open and honest with each other. We have talks about what we like and don't like that the other person does, what we would like more of, what we could work on, etc.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Jan 22nd '13
Quoting Supafly★:" DH's brother. :oops: DH and I were NOT together at the time obviously lol. "


OMG. So awkward :lol:




Does your DH know?

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
Jan 22nd '13
Quoting Supafly★:" He suspects it but he hasn't come right out and asked me. That is a conversation I hope to never have lol. "


I would feel the same way haha.



I had a FWB a little while back. It went on for about 6 months, we were sexually exclusive. He developed feelings for me, but I really was into his best friend of 14 years. :oops:



Well, I dated the best friend and obviously got rid of the FWB. Boyfriend at the time asked if we had something going on, I told him the truth, they stayed friends but boyfriend was ALWAYS clung to my side when we were all together. And the former FWB was always obviously jealous.
It was a mess lol.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5408 posts
Jan 22nd '13

DH, he is the only guy I have ever been with but 2 women before that and they were whatever lol

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5408 posts
Jan 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyToWesley:</b>" Have you tried talking about it? One of the reasons DH and I's sex life is so good is because we are ... [snip!] ... talks about what we like and don't like that the other person does, what we would like more of, what we could work on, etc."</blockquote>




^ This.



DH and I have always been completely open and honest about absolutely everything and because of it our sex life has always been off the charts, even after 9 years :D

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
Jan 22nd '13

I am single so they are all exes lol. so by an ex. whos knows which one though LOL

Party of 6 4 kids; Nevada 7871 posts
Jan 22nd '13

With my fiance by far. I've slept with my fair share of men after leaving my ex husband before meeting my fiance. He's the first person to ever give me an orgasm. And I was with my ex for 7 years lol.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
Jan 22nd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JessicaMatlock:):</b>" he just isn't good. when we got together we waited to have sex and I fell in love with his personality ... [snip!] ... he's done I tend to just get my self off... but he's going to start getting into shape and hopefully it helps the sex life.."</blockquote>




Like everyone else said you guys should talk about it. We are very open and want to please each other. I can't orgasm alone. Like we always go at the same time. If he's it ready I just can't release and the same with him. We do a lot of foreplay too so by the time we actually have sex we are fast Haha.

JessicaMatlock:) Due May 7 (boy); 1 child; Modesto, California 1337 posts
Jan 22nd '13

oh we've talked about it.. and hes even admitted to know he isnt even the best ive had.. but also im not some who will base a whole relationship on sex.. i can really go months and months and months with out it and not miss it.. i just dont have the sex drive most girls have after 10 years lol