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Cast Your Vote:

    • was with an ex. -- Votes: 25
    • is with my current SO. -- Votes: 92
    • is with myself. -- Votes: 9
    • I have never experienced sex feeling good. -- Votes: 1
MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting JessicaMatlock:):" SO has never made me come.. he's a he gets done in 5 minutes and right after that is snoring... :("


does that bother you that he has never made you come? Do you think he will ever?

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118540 posts
status 22nd Jan '13
Quoting MommyToWesley:" NEVER? Like ever? I'm so sorry. I don't think I could be with someone like that. DH sometimes is pretty ... [snip!] ... and I still ALWAYS get at least one. I think I haven't orgasmed like once or twice in the 5 years we've been together."



Same, it was usually while pregnant and uncomfortable too so it didnt have anything to do with him

JessicaMatlock:) Due May 7 (boy); 1 child; Modesto, California 1337 posts
22nd Jan '13

he just isn't good. when we got together we waited to have sex and I fell in love with his personality ... then we finally had sex and I was disappointed but by that point I already fell for him... slot of it is his weight.. so he's small and lazy even in the bedroom... he doesn't know how to use his hands and his oral skills lack... I love him but we just hardly have sex... it's been almost 6 months but that has to do with other problems in our relationship... so after he's done I tend to just get my self off... but he's going to start getting into shape and hopefully it helps the sex life..

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting JessicaMatlock:):" he just isn't good. when we got together we waited to have sex and I fell in love with his personality ... [snip!] ... he's done I tend to just get my self off... but he's going to start getting into shape and hopefully it helps the sex life.."


Have you tried talking about it? One of the reasons DH and I's sex life is so good is because we are completely open and honest with each other. We have talks about what we like and don't like that the other person does, what we would like more of, what we could work on, etc.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd Jan '13

DH's brother. :oops:



DH and I were NOT together at the time obviously lol.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118540 posts
status 22nd Jan '13
Quoting Supafly★:" DH's brother. :oops: DH and I were NOT together at the time obviously lol. "


Awkward

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Sarah Bare-ah♡:" Awkward"


Right? Thank god he lives in Poland lol.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Supafly★:" DH's brother. :oops: DH and I were NOT together at the time obviously lol. "


OMG. So awkward :lol:




Does your DH know?

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" OMG. So awkward :lol: Does your DH know?"


He suspects it but he hasn't come right out and asked me. That is a conversation I hope to never have lol.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Supafly★:" He suspects it but he hasn't come right out and asked me. That is a conversation I hope to never have lol. "


I would feel the same way haha.



I had a FWB a little while back. It went on for about 6 months, we were sexually exclusive. He developed feelings for me, but I really was into his best friend of 14 years. :oops:



Well, I dated the best friend and obviously got rid of the FWB. Boyfriend at the time asked if we had something going on, I told him the truth, they stayed friends but boyfriend was ALWAYS clung to my side when we were all together. And the former FWB was always obviously jealous.
It was a mess lol.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I would feel the same way haha. I had a FWB a little while back. It went on for about 6 months, we ... [snip!] ... was ALWAYS clung to my side when we were all together. And the former FWB was always obviously jealous. It was a mess lol."


That sounds like a mess! lol.



DH's friends tease him mercilessly about it.Of course they don't know for sure either but you didn't have to be a CIA agent to figure it out lol.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5378 posts
22nd Jan '13

DH, he is the only guy I have ever been with but 2 women before that and they were whatever lol

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5378 posts
22nd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyToWesley:</b>" Have you tried talking about it? One of the reasons DH and I's sex life is so good is because we are ... [snip!] ... talks about what we like and don't like that the other person does, what we would like more of, what we could work on, etc."</blockquote>




^ This.



DH and I have always been completely open and honest about absolutely everything and because of it our sex life has always been off the charts, even after 9 years :D

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
22nd Jan '13

I am single so they are all exes lol. so by an ex. whos knows which one though LOL

Party of 6 4 kids; Nevada 7269 posts
22nd Jan '13

With my fiance by far. I've slept with my fair share of men after leaving my ex husband before meeting my fiance. He's the first person to ever give me an orgasm. And I was with my ex for 7 years lol.