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Sexual Whiplash??? (WARNING:TMI) .:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
22nd Jan '13

Okay, so DH and I had a two nights of freaky sex and then the cord gets pulled on sex completely. I don't even know how to respond, I am emotionally raw right now.
We've been on and off dry for the past year...only having sex when I have initiated, and when he's in the "mood"...then out of the blue the other day my husband came home, tied me up while I was taking a nap and gave me mind-blowing sex, and the next day it happened again. Needless to say I was very shocked and happy that I didn't have to initiate anything, and I finally felt like I did back when we were dating.
Then last night I casually started being frisky, biting his ear and straddling him and such...what do I get? Told that I'm a "sex addict" and when I respond in turn that I like to have sex once a day and I didn't think that made me a sex addict his response was: "We're not dating anymore, I shouldn't have to impress you...Our marriage is about more than SEX." While I agree that our marriage is about more than sex, I do like to have it, and even though I take care of the kids all day I still am in the mood and I hardly think it's unreasonable to want it once a day.
Now I feel like I'm not attractive, or that I'm not worthy of sexual intimacy. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Am I sex addict? I guess I just want to hear from other women...

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20750 posts
22nd Jan '13

Wow... what a wet towel.



You're not the one with the problem.. he's the one with the problem.

.:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Regina George ♡:" Wow... what a wet towel. You're not the one with the problem.. he's the one with the problem. "


Yeah, I literally felt like crying, and I DID cry in the shower tonight.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
22nd Jan '13

He just tied you up while you were napping? Weird.

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
22nd Jan '13

not a sex addict at all! That's so mean of him to say imo.

.:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting melindapple:" not a sex addict at all! That's so mean of him to say imo."


right? When I told him that he says "It's just an expression." it's like "ummm...no it's not...it's a legitimate sexual problem...and it's one I DON'T HAVE!"

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20750 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" He just tied you up while you were napping? Weird. "


Why? DH has woken me up with amazing sex plenty of times :D

user banned Altadena, California 11084 posts
22nd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" He just tied you up while you were napping? Weird. "</blockquote>




I felt as that was weird too.



Most people ask first.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Regina George ♡:" Why? DH has woken me up with amazing sex plenty of times :D"


I am such a grump when I get woken up. I would be really angry. :lol:

Regina George ♡ 1 child; New York, New York 20750 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" I am such a grump when I get woken up. "


Me too, sometimes. But I think it's hot when DH just takes charge :lol:

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19249 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Regina George ♡:" Me too, sometimes. But I think it's hot when DH just takes charge :lol:"


:!: Same. I don't mind being woken up lol

.:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting I'm Marbles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" He just tied you up while you were napping? Weird. "</blockquote> I felt as that was weird too. Most people ask first."


Well, if you never get it without initiating...it's nice to get it...period...It made me feel like "wow, I turned you on while I was sleeping? HOT!"

Bethyboo wants a VBAC! Due July 6 (boy); 18 kids; Mississippi 1194 posts
22nd Jan '13

We have the opposite problem tonight. My bf told me that it was hard to stay attracted to me when i never wanted to give him any

.:ANIMAL:. California 740 posts
22nd Jan '13
Quoting Bethyboo wants a VBAC!:" We have the opposite problem tonight. My bf told me that it was hard to stay attracted to me when i never wanted to give him any"


You can have mine! lmao...apparently he's one of the few guys in the world that would just rather not have sex...and I'm one of the girls that just wants him at least once a day.

Bethyboo wants a VBAC! Due July 6 (boy); 18 kids; Mississippi 1194 posts
22nd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:</b>" You can have mine! lmao...apparently he's one of the few guys in the world that would just rather not have sex...and I'm one of the girls that just wants him at least once a day."</blockquote>




I feel so sorry for my bf but I wanna be left alone... I'm 4 months pregnant though so that's probably why