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Would this annoy you, too? Martian Child. 2 kids; Modesto, California 281 posts
23rd Jan '13

:D

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118928 posts
23rd Jan '13

Sounds like he was embarrassed. Why did you need to check the history?

Kaylan Rampenthal Due April 4 (girl); California 31 posts
23rd Jan '13

would be. being that hes looking at his ex and at porn would lead me to think that hes fantasising about her... i hope that things get better.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
23rd Jan '13

I'd be hurt that he didn't tell me, but as Sarah says, it sounds like he was embarrassed.

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
23rd Jan '13

I don't get why he was looking at pictures of his ex AND porn...

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 23911 posts
23rd Jan '13

I'd be annoyed by the hiding and the lying part too

Martian Child. 2 kids; Modesto, California 281 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Sarah Bare-ah♡:" Sounds like he was embarrassed. Why did you need to check the history?"


Well, we've been through things like this before. But with dating sites, emailing chicks from websites and such. I don't want to be with him if he continues that, so I checked for it. I probably shouldn't have, but I knew he was hiding something by how he was acting. :oops:

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Kaylan Rampenthal:" would be. being that hes looking at his ex and at porn would lead me to think that hes fantasising about her... i hope that things get better."


I don't think fantasizing about another person is necessarily a bad thing. Women fantasize about male celebrities, men fantasize about female celebrities, why is it any different when it's a "real" person. At the end of the day, if he's with you and isn't talking to her, if he's just looking at pictures, is it really a huge deal? Is it worth the fight that would come from accusations, particularly if they weren't true?

Martian Child. 2 kids; Modesto, California 281 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Chuck Bass:" I'd be annoyed by the hiding and the lying part too"


Yeah, that's what is bothering me. I mean, it's something so small that doesn't need to be lied about, ya know?

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
23rd Jan '13

I wouldn't care about the porn at all...it would bother me that he was looking at his ex + porn....it would lead me to believe that maybe he was fantasizing bout being with her :/

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 118928 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Martian Child.:" Well, we've been through things like this before. But with dating sites, emailing chicks from websites ... [snip!] ... continues that, so I checked for it. I probably shouldn't have, but I knew he was hiding something by how he was acting. :oops:"


Oh ok, I didnt realize its been an issue in the past. Hes probably embarrassed or worried about getting caught. I would just talk to him about how it makes you feel if you truly dont care he doesnt have to hide it, catch what I mean?

Tasha & Nika Due December 22 (boy); 1 child; San Jose, CA, United States 16028 posts
23rd Jan '13

I don't know.. probably not, as I wouldn't check the history, what he does online is basically his business. Besides, I stalk his exes far more often than he looks them up, I can guarantee that much lol

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Kaylan Rampenthal:" would be. being that hes looking at his ex and at porn would lead me to think that hes fantasising about her... i hope that things get better."


:!:

Martian Child. 2 kids; Modesto, California 281 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" I don't think fantasizing about another person is necessarily a bad thing. Women fantasize about male ... [snip!] ... pictures, is it really a huge deal? Is it worth the fight that would come from accusations, particularly if they weren't true? "


Oh no, no, no. I'm not upset about that. I'm really not, I've looked at pictures of my ex on Facebook, too. Being a nosy ass, lol. I put in bold that I was upset about the lying and hiding it, mainly.

KNZ. 3 kids; Washington 59253 posts
23rd Jan '13

But..wouldn't it also be kind of weird if you asked what he was doing and he said, "looking at porn and a picture of my ex?"
I mean, i'd be annoyed- but i wouldn't really expect the truth the first time either, ha.