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Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
25th Jan '13

I don't think it is wrong if the mother happens to be a small ten year old child who could possibly die if she carries the baby full-term.

Destinite Due August 8; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 32095 posts
25th Jan '13

I wished my idiot sister would have miscarried since she refused to have an abortion and chose to bring yet another kid into her shitty lifestyle.
I don't care if I appear evil for saying this. I know how she and her Quasai motto drug addicted boyfriend live their lives and those kids would be better off.

user banned California 8675 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" I don't think it is wrong if the mother happens to be a small ten year old child who could possibly die if she carries the baby full-term."</blockquote>



What are the chances from that happening? Maybe it does but thats why their mothers need to have more control before that even happends.

user banned California 8675 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" I wished my idiot sister would have miscarried since she refused to have an abortion and chose to bring ... [snip!] ... saying this. I know how she and her Quasai motto drug addicted boyfriend live their lives and those kids would be better off."</blockquote>



Thats is not your buisness sister or not that is her life and her choice. So what if she didnt want to get an abortion thats up to her not yours!

Destinite Due August 8; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 32095 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" I wished my idiot sister would have miscarried ... [snip!] ... your buisness sister or not that her life her choice. So what if she didnt wany to get an abortion thats up to her not yours!"


It is my business when she calls my house begging for money all the damn time and complaining that she cannot cloth, diaper or feed her kids. Complaining that her drug addicted boyfriend spent what little money they had on oxys. Oh and he also tried to take some of their christmas gifts back. Neither of them work and are complete losers. Like you said, it is her life & i choose not to help her anymore b/c it's old. She made her choices and now she has to live with those choices.

user banned California 8675 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" It is my business when she calls my house begging for money all the damn time and complaining that she ... [snip!] ... her life & i choose not to help her anymore b/c it's old. She made her choices and now she has to live with those choices."</blockquote>



Well you are doing the right thing hun. Sometimes they have to learn the hard way so in the future they can make the right choices. If you always are helping them of course that is making their lives easier and they are never going to learn .

Destinite Due August 8; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 32095 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" It is my business when she calls my house begging ... [snip!] ... right choices. If you always are helping them of course that is making their lives easier and they are never going to learn ."


It sucks b/c those kids really deserve so much more. What really upsets me is both of them act so entitled to anything and everything, yet they've done nothing, and I mean nothing to deserve anything. Neither of them do anything for themselves or the kids. He beat her up (she also assaulted him) and I sent her the funds to move out and get her own place and get away from HIM. I hoped that she would take the chance and make her life better. Nope. After they blew the money and her asking right after I sent the money if I got her a christmas gift(as she proceeded to whine that no one got her anything) I decided I was done with her and the drama that comes with her.
I just cannot do it anymore. :-(

Wiggity Wack 1 child; Connecticut 10780 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Destinite:" I wished my idiot sister would have miscarried since she refused to have an abortion and chose to bring ... [snip!] ... saying this. I know how she and her Quasai motto drug addicted boyfriend live their lives and those kids would be better off."

Have you notified CPS?

TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" It sucks b/c those kids really deserve so much more. What really upsets me is both of them act so entitled ... [snip!] ... no one got her anything) I decided I was done with her and the drama that comes with her. I just cannot do it anymore. :-("</blockquote>




Sorry to hear about that situation. That has to be really hard.

Destinite Due August 8; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 32095 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Wiggity Wack:" Have you notified CPS?"


I've tried, along with some other measures. They've done nothing, not even a visit. I don't know what else to do. They live in LA and I'm finding that whole state is corrupt. I have one more avenue that I want to try, but I'm not sure that will even do anythinge except land him in jail yet again.



Destinite Due August 8; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 32095 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" It sucks b/c those kids really deserve so ... [snip!] ... her. I just cannot do it anymore. :-("</blockquote> Sorry to hear about that situation. That has to be really hard."


It is so embarassing, but I guess I shouldn't be embarassed for their actions. They are everything that I loathe.

Wiggity Wack 1 child; Connecticut 10780 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Destinite:" I've tried, along with some other measures. They've done nothing, not even a visit. I don't know what ... [snip!] ... have one more avenue that I want to try, but I'm not sure that will even do anythinge except land him in jail yet again. "

My heart goes out to you. That's gotta be frustrating. It's good that you at least tried, though. Too often, people see children living in shitty conditions and just turn the other cheek, not wanting to get involved.

Destinite Due August 8; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 32095 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Wiggity Wack:" My heart goes out to you. That's gotta be frustrating. It's good that you at least tried, though. Too ... [snip!] ... though. Too often, people see children living in shitty conditions and just turn the other cheek, not wanting to get involved."


Thank you. I think my mom needs the sympathy more. She is their little gofer. Since neither of them have a car (he wrecked it and it never was repaired since he didn't pay for the insurance) she takes them everywhere and loans her car to them. They take advantage of her and treat her like dirt!



My mom is to the point where she wants to leave LA and move here with me in FL. She just cannot take the negativity that surrounds them.
I am a pretty drama free person & that is all everything is with them. They live a very trashy lifestyle. My poor nephew acts like an uncivilized beast as a result. :-(

TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" It is so embarassing, but I guess I shouldn't be embarassed for their actions. They are everything that I loathe."</blockquote>




I'd feel the same way as I have personal pride and pride in my family. BUT, I think nearly every family either has something seriously wrong somewhere OR they love someone who has a bad situation.
I don't mean to diminish the situation just help put it into perspective.

TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" Thank you. I think my mom needs the sympathy more. She is their little gofer. Since neither of them ... [snip!] ... all everything is with them. They live a very trashy lifestyle. My poor nephew acts like an uncivilized beast as a result. :-("</blockquote>




hard call for your mom. In essence, her leaving would be like "tough love."