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Just made me sad..*vent* Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
23rd Jan '13

My fiance told me we aren't going to have any more kids tonight...I was like I thought we agreed we would TTC when Noah turns 3 or 4?



He was like nope sorry...my whole life I've only wanted one and it be a boy..and we have him...
I said "But I have always wanted a big family...so I thought 2 was our compromise"..



He told me he just agreed to it so we wouldnt have to talk about it...



Its way too early to just decide no more kids ever!! tddfhjfff I want another dammit...I want N to have sibling so he wont go through the loss of his parents on his own...and I want another baby...and hopefully a healing Hbac too! ;(



Can't help but have my feelings stomped in a bit there

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
23rd Jan '13

Have an "oops"

SuperOvulator;♥ ;] 2 kids; North Carolina 9984 posts
23rd Jan '13

Aww :cry:
Maybe he'll come around in a few years.



How old is your son now?

Kimber's Mommy 1 child; South Carolina 4272 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" Have an "oops""


:)

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
23rd Jan '13

Awwwe, well maybe he will change his mind :-/

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 17 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4099 posts
23rd Jan '13

I would be furious that he agreed to two "just to avoid talking about"... I could understand changing his mind, but that's just mean

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
23rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" Have an "oops""</blockquote>




That's honestly a good possibility....I'm not on bc and he never really wears a condom anymore......:]

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
23rd Jan '13

I had a friend that her husband said that. After their son was 3 he agreed to another :) Just give it time.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Cheeks mom:" I would be furious that he agreed to two "just to avoid talking about"... I could understand changing his mind, but that's just mean"


I would be more than furious ... to me that's a break up able offense.

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26 (boy); 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
23rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" Have an "oops""</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... That's honestly a good possibility....I'm not on bc and he never really wears a condom anymore......:]"</blockquote>




If he tricked u I see no harm in doing the same. He doesn't have to know

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4168 posts
23rd Jan '13

Just give him some time. DH said he didn't want any at all and then agreed to DD, now DD is almost 19 months and he's ready for another one.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
23rd Jan '13

He wouldn't be my fiance anymore honestly. That would be a complete deal breaker for me.

MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4855 posts
23rd Jan '13
Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" Have an "oops""


I don't normally support it But it's selfish for him to spring that on you. I told SO I want one or 2 more. He tried to say he was going to get snipped. Definitely have to compromise.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
23rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I had a friend that her husband said that. After their son was 3 he agreed to another :) Just give it time."</blockquote>




I hope so....I'm trying to not to take it too seriously...but damn its like...I HAVE to have another kwim?

Gold 2 kids; Kakariko Village, Hyrule, HF, Togo 42557 posts
23rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's ... [snip!] ... wears a condom anymore......:]"</blockquote> If he tricked u I see no harm in doing the same. He doesn't have to know"</blockquote>




That's a horrible idea.




Op give it time. He May change his mind after awhile. You never know.