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Sweet Little Lies 2 kids; Deception, WI, United States 4121 posts
status 24th Jan '13
Quoting Not tellin:" No. If that is the case then I cheat on my husband regularly. One of my best friends is someone I slept with like 18 years ago. holy shit! I am old!!!"

I'm old too! LOL!

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 747 posts
24th Jan '13

If you are saying hello and asking just how the other persons life is gushing about your SO and LO's then no but talking on a emotional level you should be talking to your SO then yes.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
24th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sweet Little Lies:</b>" He does because I've slept with this guy before and he thinks it is wrong to talk to him again!"</blockquote>




Well if he got upset about it, then I wouldn't speak to that person anymore. Out of respect.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting mrs.bedell:" If you are saying hello and asking just how the other persons life is gushing about your SO and LO's then no but talking on a emotional level you should be talking to your SO then yes."


I don't gush about my husband or my kids regularly when I chat with friends. I mean, they do come up but I do talk about other things.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10910 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting Sweet Little Lies:" He does because I've slept with this guy before and he thinks it is wrong to talk to him again!"


eh... that's too bad. I've been in relationship before where the guy was jealous like that. Needless to say, it didn't work out.

Sweet Little Lies 2 kids; Deception, WI, United States 4121 posts
status 24th Jan '13
Quoting mrs.bedell:" If you are saying hello and asking just how the other persons life is gushing about your SO and LO's then no but talking on a emotional level you should be talking to your SO then yes."

This guy said all that and then said " I am gonna go bust a nut" I said nothing back to that but my husband was not happy.

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 747 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting Not tellin:" I don't gush about my husband or my kids regularly when I chat with friends. I mean, they do come up but I do talk about other things. "


If you start talking to a ex that is not considered a regular friend what else would you talk about other then your lives maybe I just forgot how to be a regular person but they are my top convo starters lol

mrs.bedell 2 kids; Grand Forks, North Dakota 747 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting Sweet Little Lies:" This guy said all that and then said " I am gonna go bust a nut" I said nothing back to that but my husband was not happy."


I kept all ex's as friends until I met my husband he does not appreciate it some men do not understand why you keep that part of your past close unless you still care about them in that way. Makes sense to us just not to the hubs sometimes I guess

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting mrs.bedell:" If you start talking to a ex that is not considered a regular friend what else would you talk about ... [snip!] ... you talk about other then your lives maybe I just forgot how to be a regular person but they are my top convo starters lol"


Well, I guess I don't just start talking to ex's.

Sweet Little Lies 2 kids; Deception, WI, United States 4121 posts
status 24th Jan '13

Thanks all! I decided that is was disrespectful! to my husband to talk to this guy!

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting loser mom:" eh... that's too bad. I've been in relationship before where the guy was jealous like that. Needless to say, it didn't work out."



Jealousy never works well in relationships.

Sweet Little Lies 2 kids; Deception, WI, United States 4121 posts
status 24th Jan '13

thanks for all the advice!!!

Sweet Little Lies 2 kids; Deception, WI, United States 4121 posts
status 24th Jan '13
Quoting Not tellin:" Jealousy never works well in relationships. "

I don't have any, our 4 year annivrersary is coming up. its ridc!

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10910 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting Not tellin:" Jealousy never works well in relationships. "


Tell me about it! I only went that route one time, learned my lesson fast. :wink:



I'm sooo glad my husband and I don't have those types of issues. I don't know... maybe it's because we were older & more mature when we started dating (early 30s), but there's just not any jealousy or trust issues. I guess it's because we really are just best friends. :D

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27466 posts
24th Jan '13
Quoting Sweet Little Lies:" Yeah see my DH was not happy about it! He thought it was damn near cheating!"

Thats stupid. My (ex)SO and I met a few of each others ex's/fuck buddies. We didnt give a damn. Its not cheating unless you talk inappropriately or act as such too.