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user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" I'd rather her say black than to refer to someone as colored. The term colored is offensive."


sorry, i didn't know. :oops:

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 21322 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting M walls:" I just want to point out that its not just white families who have a problm. There's also a lot of black families who wouldn't want their son dating a white chick"


I've seen this happen in movies.



lol, I don't know a lot of black people.

JΔS Georgia 72695 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" sorry, i didn't know. :oops:"


Its ok.

Third Time Mommy 19 kids; Michigan 406 posts
25th Jan '13

It's a little opposite for me, I'm the only white woman my SO has been with, and he always used to catch shit for being with a "white girl". My family was more accepting of him, just because they know I'm going to be with who I want regardless. Some people in his family, his mother, grandmother, mainly, were not happy that I'm the one he ended up with. They don't think a white girl is good enough for him, they say he needs a strong black woman. A lot of people still think we're not gunna make it or he must cheat on me. But we love each other, it's brought up issues, but we always get through them. At the end of the day it doesn't matter what anyone thinks, we are happy. And we have a beautiful family.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" I'd rather her say black than to refer to someone as colored. The term colored is offensive."</blockquote>




To you? She's the one who dated him.

Avian's Mommy!! 1 child; Levelland, Texas 3872 posts
25th Jan '13

I am white and my SO is hispanic.. my dad hated it. he talked so much crap and everything for years, but i didn't care about my family. I knew he was a good guy and i didn't care what anyone had to say about it. Its your life.. do waht makes you happy

JΔS Georgia 72695 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" I'd rather her say black than to ... [snip!] ... to refer to someone as colored. The term colored is offensive."</blockquote> To you? She's the one who dated him."


OK? And no, its not just offensive to me. I didn't call the girl racist. You can kindly jump out of this tiny discussion.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" OK? And no, its not just offensive to me. I didn't call the girl racist. You can kindly jump out of this tiny discussion."</blockquote>




I wasn't aware you were the BG police.



Please jump out because you're trying to tell me there's no issue where I want there to be an issue.



Very adult response.

JΔS Georgia 72695 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" OK? And no, its not just offensive ... [snip!] ... Please jump out because you're trying to tell me there's no issue where I want there to be an issue. Very adult response."


Lol whatever. I'm not going to sit here and entertain you.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting M walls:" I just want to point out that its not just white families who have a problm. There's also a lot of black families who wouldn't want their son dating a white chick"


Aint that the truth.



I dated a black guy in high school. Really sweet guy, nice family. But one of his friends was like, "Maaaan if I brought a white b***h home to my mama she'd kick her ass and tell me to find a real woman." :shock :shock: Both of us about fell over backwards. We heard a lot of similar things said, too.

MrsRelli 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 83 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" :roll: Seriously?"

I was going to say something about that I'm black or "colored" and a lady told me i had beautiful colored babies:roll: I mean you don't have to call me african american i'll accept black or she could of just said i had cute kids than another lady came to me and asked if my kids where mine because they look like white babies WTF(i wish push to my limit that day)but whatever to get to my point...I have a white husband and everyone in my family seems to be ok with it but my mom who was born in the 50's tend to make little dumbass comments about not letting the white man control me and all that jazz. I see nothing wrong with interracial dating and where i grew up I never really had a choose because I hardly lived around black people. I did however break up with a guy(before my husband) because his grandma hated blacks and I wasn't aloud in her home.

jazzzzz* 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 7558 posts
25th Jan '13

My mom said she knew what I was attracted to, when I followed Black boys around the basketball court at three. She was right its all I've ever been with, my family accepts it. Except my uncle was upset when I got pregnant, he is now my dd's favorite. People change.

MrsRelli 3 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 83 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting FaithLovesPussyCats:" Aint that the truth. I dated a black guy in high school. Really sweet guy, nice family. But one of ... [snip!] ... tell me to find a real woman." :shock :shock: Both of us about fell over backwards. We heard a lot of similar things said, too."

I can't stand stuff like that but ignorance doesn't discriminate

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7052 posts
25th Jan '13

DH's family was ok with it mine didn't care. But his grandpa didn't necessarily liked it he was really racist when DH told him he said well at least she isn't black :shock:. I did however dated a guy that dad didn't like me and his grandfather was the same but oh well.

vajayna 18 kids; Kentucky 4552 posts
25th Jan '13

Thanks everyone, he's met my mother already but she pretty much walked in my house and told him not to get me pregnant & I have too many baby daddys. Thanks mom. Im the type who wouldnt care if my daughter dated a purple woman, as long as she's happy. But my family treats me like im 12, not 22 with 2 children.