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************* Wonderstruck ♥ Due March 15; 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 508 posts
25th Jan '13
Hairspray 18 kids; Ohio 7391 posts
25th Jan '13

He sounds like my son. You may want to look into ODD and how to deal with it.

That girl Amber +2 2 kids; California 6981 posts
25th Jan '13

Go back and read what you just wrote.



The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too

Wonderstruck ♥ Due March 15; 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 508 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Amberchik78:" Go back and read what you just wrote. The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too"

I don't literally scream in his face.
I just use a stern voice and sorry but when he's biting and hitting my other son, of course i'm going to tell him no or discipline him.



& I don't hit so i have no idea where he got that from.

Hairspray 18 kids; Ohio 7391 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Amberchik78:" Go back and read what you just wrote. The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too"


Really?

I've tried many different discipline methods and he still acts the same.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" He sounds like my son. You may want to look into ODD and how to deal with it."</blockquote>




Ur son has odd??? My dean got diagnosed with that in oct



Btw op I also thought he sounded like my son :( maybe make an appt. With mental health...

Wonderstruck ♥ Due March 15; 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 508 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" He sounds like my son. You may want to look ... [snip!] ... dean got diagnosed with that in oct Btw op I also thought he sounded like my son :( maybe make an appt. With mental health..."

What is ODD ?
I've heard of ADD & ADHD but not ODD.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amberchik78:</b>" Go back and read what you just wrote. The kid yells because thats how people talk to him. I would be angry if i were him too"</blockquote>




I've yelled, talked too, reaasoned, explained, ignored, and cried to him he will still act the same... what do u think I should do??

Wonderstruck ♥ Due March 15; 2 kids; Seattle, Washington 508 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Hairspray:" Really? I've tried many different discipline methods and he still acts the same."

I've tried using positive reenforcement, redirection, time outs, ignoring the negative behavior - rewarding positive behavior
I've tried just about everything i can think of.

Hairspray 18 kids; Ohio 7391 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Hairspray:</b>" He sounds like my son. You may want to look ... [snip!] ... dean got diagnosed with that in oct Btw op I also thought he sounded like my son :( maybe make an appt. With mental health..."


He hasn't been diagnosed with it but I would be willing to put money on it that he is ADHD and ODD.

I've actually read alot of your posts about your son. I was going to contact you about a month ago.

user banned Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5125 posts
25th Jan '13

That's how my daughter is. she has some issues, but speaking calmly to her and comforting her when she is confused has helped immensely. She hd actually been very pleasant this week

Hairspray 18 kids; Ohio 7391 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:" I've tried using positive reenforcement, redirection, time outs, ignoring the negative behavior - rewarding positive behavior I've tried just about everything i can think of."


Don't listen to her. If I didn't yell at my son when he is out of control he would walk all over me. Who cares if that isn't the way she likes to discipline.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Wonderstruck ♥:</b>" What is ODD ? I've heard of ADD & ADHD but not ODD."</blockquote>




My son was diagnosed with adhd and disruptive behaviour disorder in sept,
Then oct the odd sky rocketed, that's when he got diagnosed with odd



Odd is opositional defiant disorder,



http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oppositional_defiant_disorder



Sorry I'm on my phone this is what I printed out for all my family to kinda go along with for Dean.