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Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Minion:" SO looks at porn pretty regularly. It doesn't bother me. They're just pictures and SO has never and will ... [snip!] ... will never meet those chicks in the porn he looks at. Unless your SO ignores your needs for porn, then I don't see a big deal."

I can see watching it on his phone at a library being a problem.
I mean, kids are curious by nature, and if one happened to walk by where they're sitting and see some girl taking a big ol' penis up the bum, might freak a kid out and lead to a very angry parent, or legal problems.

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5480 posts
25th Jan '13

You should just put porn blockers on his phone and the computer..

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" You should just put porn blockers on his phone and the computer.. "

Why? He's old enough to watch porn, she's not his mother. I'm sure he pays just as many bills as she does. Communication vs. dictatorship. If she tries to stop him like that, he's just going to start doing it even more excessively behind her back and hold a grudge against her.

Blair B Due July 9; TTC since Jan 2014; 1 child; Pennsylvania 1018 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" Omg I would freak out on my SO.. I have a suspicion ... [snip!] ... Wow that sucks. Why be so uptight? Nothing wrong with a little bit of personal time choking the chimp."</blockquote>




Idk it just makes me feel like I don't give him enough sex or I'm not good enough for him

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting risssa ♥:</b>" there is......"</blockquote>




Okay. Cool.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Blair B:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair ... [snip!] ... the chimp."</blockquote> Idk it just makes me feel like I don't give him enough sex or I'm not good enough for him"

Then you should work on that not freak out on him. He probably is watching it, its human nature in a way. And if he knows you will freak out then he is probably hiding it from you as well. Thats not healthy. You should have open communication about all needs.

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smokey_Taboo:</b>" You should just put porn blockers on his phone and the computer.. "</blockquote>




That's not her right. He can do what she wants on his phone. We're talking about a grown man here. Not a little boy.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
25th Jan '13

Didn't you just ask something similar the other day? He's watching porn while you're out baby shopping, he's watching porn while at the library, he's watching/looking at porn so often that it's affecting your relationship. It is either becoming an addiction or it is already one. You NEED to find a way to talk to him. He needs help.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Jennybananna:" Then you should work on that not freak out on him. He probably is watching it, its human nature in a ... [snip!] ... out then he is probably hiding it from you as well. Thats not healthy. You should have open communication about all needs. "

Yup. Freaking out and fighting just leads to resentment.

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair B:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair ... [snip!] ... the chimp."</blockquote> Idk it just makes me feel like I don't give him enough sex or I'm not good enough for him"</blockquote>




:lol: it's not that serious.

Suckysuckyy[3] Due June 12; 2 kids; Louisiana 796 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" Why. Are. You. Still. With. Him? When is enough enough? I don't understand why you do this to yourself."</blockquote>




:!::!:



Leave him!:roll:

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" I think the issue is that he is seems to be always on it. Day or night. At home or in public. Its getting to a point of addiction not just hey lets look at some porn. "</blockquote>



Ah yes. Looking at porn in public is pretty excessive.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 105243 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting

Blair B Due July 9; TTC since Jan 2014; 1 child; Pennsylvania 1018 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" Then you should work on that not freak out on him. He probably is watching it, its human nature in a ... [snip!] ... out then he is probably hiding it from you as well. Thats not healthy. You should have open communication about all needs. "</blockquote>




I would be so mad if I found out he watched it behind my back...

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
25th Jan '13

Why do these threads always make me wanna go watch some porn.