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parenting plan joanie2 Due July 7; Washington 20 posts
25th Jan '13

I have a temp. Parenting plan for my son. Under other provisions it says that his dad will exchange him at my mothers.signed by his lawyer hand writing it in..however his lawyer neglected to cross out under 3.11 which is earlier in the plan it says we share transportation...so it technically says both, although it shouldn't.... On the minus from the court hearing it says its his responsibility.. however I don't have that...he is being a bugger and saying he is calling the cops on me for not dropping my son off.... but really I feel he is being neglectful.....and a butt... for not picking him up....I have no license and that's part of why the judge ruled he's responsible for pick up and drop off otherwise id just take him no prob...he's being controlling trying to get me in trouble cus he knows there's nothing I can do.....but my question would be am I going to get in trouble with the cops because the order says both, even though its not supposed to.....and what am I supposed to do with my son....I don't want to be acused of kidnapping or withholding him....

Barfy McVomitron Due July 19; 4 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 29256 posts
25th Jan '13

the cops can't do anything, it's a civil issue. he'd have to take you back to court

joanie2 Due July 7; Washington 20 posts
25th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barfy McVomitron:</b>" the cops can't do anything, it's a civil issue. he'd have to take you back to court"</blockquote>




Okay...what happens with my son tho do I just sit and wait for the dad to get here or...
Thank you

Barfy McVomitron Due July 19; 4 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 29256 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting joanie2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Barfy McVomitron:</b>" the cops can't do anything, it's a civil ... [snip!] ... Okay...what happens with my son tho do I just sit and wait for the dad to get here or... Thank you"


yup, and keep records of everything. get a note book. write down Times he calls,comes to pick up, Times he drops off and no shows

Barfy McVomitron Due July 19; 4 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 29256 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting joanie2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Barfy McVomitron:</b>" the cops can't do anything, it's a civil ... [snip!] ... Okay...what happens with my son tho do I just sit and wait for the dad to get here or... Thank you"


if there is a pre determined time set, wait half an hour after that and write it down as a no show if he doesn't show up. you don't have to wait around forever.

Barfy McVomitron Due July 19; 4 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 29256 posts
25th Jan '13

however, keep this is mind. until there is custody established in court, if he is on the birth cert and he takes the baby and keeps it, it's not kidnapping. you'd have to take him back to court. same for you. if you ran off its not kidnapping, but it wouldn't look good for you once you do go to court. it sucks, but play nice until custody is established

joanie2 Due July 7; Washington 20 posts
25th Jan '13

Its already gone to court its a temp parenting plan until the guardian ad litem gets done...I am keeping track of everything...he lied to the judge I didn't know I couldn't just tell the judge he was lying so he has custody....I was his provider 4 1/2 years and this is fairly new...good thing is I proved he lied about everything that got him temp custody and the guardian does not like him at all....I'm just worried he's gonna call the cops I'll get in trouble...then it'll screw me lol...I got a lawyer but she's not callin back since its the weekend...man I'm way to detailed lol

Barfy McVomitron Due July 19; 4 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 29256 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting joanie2:" Its already gone to court its a temp parenting plan until the guardian ad litem gets done...I am keeping ... [snip!] ... it'll screw me lol...I got a lawyer but she's not callin back since its the weekend...man I'm way to detailed lol"


the cops can't do anything. no worries. it's a civil issue