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Do you...? maria30 2 kids; Florida 57 posts
25th Jan '13

still say yes to have sex with your SO even if you're mad/angry/upset of something that he did? Does your SO usually know the reason why you said no?



Personally, I am very emotional and only want to have sex when I'm in a good mood but at the same time don't want to deprive my SO. But if I'm mad of something I would rather to talk about it when I am more calm than to open my mouth right away and say something that I might regret it.

user banned California 36390 posts
25th Jan '13

I always have sex with him when he asks.

Amber ♡ Due August 13 (boy); 1 child; Kansas 18753 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:" I always have sex with him when he asks."


:!: Same here. But I always want it too :D:wink:

[♥]Mrs. Taylor 18 kids; Texas 12250 posts
25th Jan '13

He's never really asked me for sex when he knows I'm pissed off at him.



But I don't think I could do it mad.... I would probably start crying lol.

BrookeT Due April 26; Fort McMurray, Alberta 440 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:" I always have sex with him when he asks."

Same, unless im sick or sore. He doesnt turn me down for sex even if he isnt exactly in the mood so I return the favor.

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5798 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting maria30:" still say yes to have sex with your SO even if you're mad/angry/upset of something that he did? Does ... [snip!] ... I would rather to talk about it when I am more calm than to open my mouth right away and say something that I might regret it."


It doesn't matter if I'm mad or upset or not, I want it when I want it. Why make myself suffer?

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
25th Jan '13

If he pisses me off he knows better than to try and have sex with me, like on sunday we got into fight, we stayed in separate rooms til last nighty, I knew he wanted to but I didn't, tonight depending how tired we are when we finally lay down...

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
25th Jan '13

I'm basically asexual so I say no 7/10 of the time.

Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 11750 posts
status 25th Jan '13

DH loves to try to get it in when I'm pissed at him. I think it turns him on (though he won't admit it). I'm okay with it usually. It's a good way to just drop whatever petty shit I'm mad about :)

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13909 posts
25th Jan '13

If I am not in the mood, I am NOT budging.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
25th Jan '13

I never say no to some lovins! :)

James Burner Japan 17 posts
25th Jan '13

Well if he loves you, which I'm sure he does, if he pisses you off this often, then he wouldn't want you to suffer through unwanted sex, No woman should go through that. But I think the deeper question here is why not talk about the things that upset you? yea calming down is always good, but letting problems stew and build up only makes them bigger than they need to be. If you don't like to have sex when angry, but don't wanna deprive SO, then instead of forcing yourself to sit through having sex why not just talk out the situation and get rid of your anger? then when he asks you can happily agree and everybody wins. :D

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
25th Jan '13

DH has never "asked"



But usually when either of us are upset at the other we just don't

maria30 2 kids; Florida 57 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting James Burner:" Well if he loves you, which I'm sure he does, if he pisses you off this often, then he wouldn't want ... [snip!] ... why not just talk out the situation and get rid of your anger? then when he asks you can happily agree and everybody wins. :D"


:) :) :)