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he sure knows how to make me feel good That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
26th Jan '13

Not! I'm 80% sure that my marriage is going to end in divorce. That 20% I hope that things can dramatically change. Well since we can't have sex yet and I wanted to have some sexual fun, I told him I wanted to give him a bj. I never do those anymore because frankly he's more aboht himself in bed so I stopped doing it a while ago because this isn't a one way street. Well I noticed he had been staring at his phone for a while. He said he was watchin p**n and that he didn't want to take my offer because we can't have sex. Like seriously he chose p**n on e again over the real deal. Makes me feel shitty.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
26th Jan '13

wow. :( im sorry mama. thats shitty.

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61416 posts
26th Jan '13

I'm really sorry. Have you two been able to see a marriage counselor?

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
26th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting sassy chef:</b>" I'm really sorry. Have you two been able to see a marriage counselor? "</blockquote>




He says its a waste if time and money.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting That Girl.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sassy chef:</b>" I'm really sorry. Have you two been able to see a marriage counselor? "</blockquote> He says its a waste if time and money."


yeah thats what mine said. were now seperated. im so much happier.

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61416 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting That Girl.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sassy chef:</b>" I'm really sorry. Have you two been able to see a marriage counselor? "</blockquote> He says its a waste if time and money."


I'm sorry. What about something like reading a book together, something geared towards bettering your marriage? The time and money would be MUCH less, think he'd give it a shot? We used the Love Dare during a low point in our marriage, we did it together and it was really wonderful. I'd even mail it to you for free if it was the money he didn't want to spend.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
26th Jan '13

It just sucks because I know I'm not "stuck" in this marriage but it sure feels like it.



Yeah I could move into a 1 bedroom place in a horrible neighborhood and barely be able to support my family if I leave now.



I'm just so fed up though. Like I feel so bitter and angry all the time. I am just not prepared to leave and deff not prepared to battle in court over custody. Yeah we have talked about divorce and basocally he said he will fight me in court throw my name through the mudd etc.



He thinks I have post partun depression and that there's this magical pill that will make me happy. But I've been unhappy for a while.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
26th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting sassy chef:</b>" I'm sorry. What about something like reading a book together, something geared towards bettering your ... [snip!] ... we did it together and it was really wonderful. I'd even mail it to you for free if it was the money he didn't want to spend. "</blockquote>




Aww that's sweet if u. Ill see if hell go for it.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting That Girl.:" It just sucks because I know I'm not "stuck" in this marriage but it sure feels like it. Yeah I could ... [snip!] ... I have post partun depression and that there's this magical pill that will make me happy. But I've been unhappy for a while."


::hugs:: will he actually fight you for custody tho? mine always said he would too, and then when it came down to it he had no desire to, because that would mean hed have to be a dad full time and he didnt want that anyway.

Jane.Doe. Fukushima, Japan 2805 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting That Girl.:" It just sucks because I know I'm not "stuck" in this marriage but it sure feels like it. Yeah I could ... [snip!] ... I have post partun depression and that there's this magical pill that will make me happy. But I've been unhappy for a while."


Tell him it's not post partum, it's post marriage and they dont make a magical pill for that, he has to HELP and try to fix shit.



Honestly, I'd turn down head because it just makes me wanna f**k worse lol but I wouldnt blatantly tell my spouse I'd rather watch p**n..I save that for when he isent home lol or in the shower >.>

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 61416 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting That Girl.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sassy chef:</b>" I'm sorry. What about something like reading ... [snip!] ... free if it was the money he didn't want to spend. "</blockquote> Aww that's sweet if u. Ill see if hell go for it."


Shoot me a PM if he says yes, and I'll get it out in the mail for you this coming week.