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Deleted Aurielle's mommmmy 1 child; California 114 posts
26th Jan '13

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Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15185 posts
26th Jan '13

Y'all need to stop with the drama.



File for custody and child support. Let the court handle the rest.
If he wants your child to see his family, he can do it on his time.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 20544 posts
26th Jan '13

nvm, that was the point of your post, lol. Yeah, definitely get a custody agreement.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
26th Jan '13

I think the answer is obvious. Go to court and file for CS and a visitation schedule.

Jane.Doe. Fukushima, Japan 2805 posts
26th Jan '13

Call your local child support enforcement and file with them. THEY will deal with the rest of it for you. Until then, NO MORE visits PERIOD if he can't act like a damn adult and take care of his kid the few times he sees her. Also maybe look into a restraining order first, 2 am threatening visits need to stop and if you have a restraining order in place would probably help any custody crap he might try to pull later.

Aurielle's mommmmy 1 child; California 114 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Mrs. Reynolds:" Call your local child support enforcement and file with them. THEY will deal with the rest of it for ... [snip!] ... need to stop and if you have a restraining order in place would probably help any custody crap he might try to pull later."


Thank you! I feel like Ive been too easy with him, and hes taking advantage of it. Its not fair and he has over $15,000+ in savings that he wont even touch in an emergency for her. (because hes saving up for a car)..... But Ive spent all my savings preparing for her and my family & I still spend money on her 24/7. And he told me all I cared about was having money for her. Which is absolutely false. Ive never asked him for cash, plus I buy practically EVERYTHING. He shouldnt be buying just diapers and wipes when he has $15000+ he has more money than me but is spending way less on her.... I cant even save 5,000. My daughter is breastfed, he should be lucky he doesnt have to pay for formula!!!!!!!! Hes taking care of everyone except his daughter!

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15185 posts
26th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting O52612:</b>" Thank you! I feel like Ive been too easy with him, and hes taking advantage of it. Its not fair and ... [snip!] ... is breastfed, he should be lucky he doesnt have to pay for formula!!!!!!!! Hes taking care of everyone except his daughter!"</blockquote>




Remember that none of this will matter.



Just file for child support, and let the courts handle the rest.

Aurielle's mommmmy 1 child; California 114 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting O52612:</b>" Thank you! I feel like Ive been too easy with ... [snip!] ... Remember that none of this will matter. Just file for child support, and let the courts handle the rest."


I am, thank you. I just needed a second opinion from other mothers, I literally have noone to talk to about this.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15185 posts
26th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting O52612:</b>" I am, thank you. I just needed a second opinion from other mothers, I literally have noone to talk to about this."</blockquote>




Absolutely understandable.



I panicked before court. They don't want to hear anything. It's cut and dry.