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Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5480 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Mama Bird [+2] ♥:" Thanks guys. Ive threaten with the police before he said the cops know him and they wont let me take ... [snip!] ... they wont let me take my son with me to where ever i need to go. Nand yes my son did just get out of the hospital 4 days ago."


Im really sorry you are going threw this.. do you think tonight it will get better or worse? do you think just leaving him and the baby be for a hr will give him what he needs, its totally not ok that he was a total ass and just took the baby but it sounds like he was hurt his daughter wanted to spend time with her mother..

Mama Bird [+2] ♥ 2 kids; Michigan 2647 posts
26th Jan '13

im trying to talk to him, and shit.



but honestly i am sick of this. b.c if we did leave my son and I, i woldnt have anywhere to go.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Jan '13

So you're all in the house though? Like he didn't up and walk out with your baby, right?

Mama Bird [+2] ♥ 2 kids; Michigan 2647 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" So you're all in the house though? Like he didn't up and walk out with your baby, right?"


no. he's upstaris.

Mama Bird [+2] ♥ 2 kids; Michigan 2647 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" Im really sorry you are going threw this.. do you think tonight it will get better or worse? do you ... [snip!] ... he was a total ass and just took the baby but it sounds like he was hurt his daughter wanted to spend time with her mother.. "


yeah, but if i leave then he starts saying im cheating on him and all this shit. (when we first started to date i did cheat) but i dont. i love him more then anything. so much.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Mama Bird [+2] ♥:" no. he's upstaris."


Not sure why everyone is telling you to call the cops, then. It's his baby, too. He isn't doing anything illegal chillin' with his baby upstairs.



I would just let him mope up there, personally. Watch some TV and ignore him. He'll come to his senses soon.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 46019 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" Not sure why everyone is telling you to call the cops, then. It's his baby, too. He isn't doing anything ... [snip!] ... baby upstairs. I would just let him mope up there, personally. Watch some TV and ignore him. He'll come to his senses soon."


I agree.



It's not like he got in the car and took off.

Katie[ღ]Siℓas 17 kids; Grand Haven, Michigan 2071 posts
26th Jan '13

We were saying call the cops because it sounded like she wants to leave, but apparently she cant. :(



Op, it sounds like he needs to grow up.. Being mad at you because his daughter doesn't want to play with him is really low, it's not YOUR fault for one, and for 2 it's really nothing to get mad over in the first place.. maybe a little hurt if he hasn't seen her in awhile but to throw a tantrum over it... wow :(

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I agree. It's not like he got in the car and took off. "


Involving cops in this situation would just make it worse. He just needs to cool off and get his wits about him.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Katie[ღ]Siℓas:" We were saying call the cops because it sounded like she wants to leave, but apparently she cant. :( ... [snip!] ... get mad over in the first place.. maybe a little hurt if he hasn't seen her in awhile but to throw a tantrum over it... wow :( "


I'm sorry, but what is stopping her from leaving?

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5480 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Mama Bird [+2] ♥:" yeah, but if i leave then he starts saying im cheating on him and all this shit. (when we first started to date i did cheat) but i dont. i love him more then anything. so much. "


Sometimes love hurts :cry: I remember when my LO was a newborn we had some pretty bad fights it was just so exhausting...
Right now you all are safe, giving him space isnt gonna hurt anyone.. Hang out on BG and talk with us all!
But I do think him thinking he holds power over you is something that needs to worked on in the future, he also didnt wanna be at the birth of your son right, because he didnt wanna leave his daughter?

Mama Bird [+2] ♥ 2 kids; Michigan 2647 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" I'm sorry, but what is stopping her from leaving? "



the freezing cold. its cold out and i have no wear to go. but it wont stop him from kicking me out, he has done it to me before in the rain while pregnant.

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5480 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" Not sure why everyone is telling you to call the cops, then. It's his baby, too. He isn't doing anything ... [snip!] ... baby upstairs. I would just let him mope up there, personally. Watch some TV and ignore him. He'll come to his senses soon."


You are always really level headed, I like that about you. :D

Katie[ღ]Siℓas 17 kids; Grand Haven, Michigan 2071 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" I'm sorry, but what is stopping her from leaving? "


Idk, I thought maybe the fact that he had the baby, and if she wants to leave she would probably want to take baby with her. But what's stopping her from leaving is nowhere to go.



Now that I know more what's going on though I do agree that cops would probably just make a bad situation worse, specially if she HAS to stay.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Jan '13
Quoting Mama Bird [+2] ♥:" the freezing cold. its cold out and i have no wear to go. but it wont stop him from kicking me out, he has done it to me before in the rain while pregnant. "


Did he threaten to kick you out again? He sounds like an ass, I'd leave him.