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HippieBabie BFTs 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 9722 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" ... [snip!] ... used to it. It's made me realize I don't need him I'm all I need to be happy."</blockquote> Well that's positive :)"</blockquote>




Yeah dealing with him for 5 years has been a spiritual experience about being in charge of my own life and happiness. I can't change him but I can be happy and b***h to strangers lol

HippieBabie BFTs 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 9722 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lauralie89:</b>" I have to do everything WITH SO here (he's on workmans comp since the accident) I get kinda mad sometimes ... [snip!] ... get kinda mad sometimes but he really can't do too much because his neck and back are fucked. It gets frustrating sometimes :/"</blockquote>




That sounds frustrating. Like he's there but can't help.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" My SO is such a dick I have to fight for what I deserve bc he'd let me stay at home everyday, every minute ... [snip!] ... you". I mean really *eyeroll* it's a good thing I'm an amazing woman who can do it all. Well that's my vent. Anyone relate?"</blockquote>




totally. sounds exactly like my husband who spent the afternoon at a brewery. must be f**king nice to not have to be a f**king adult.

HippieBabie BFTs 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 9722 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ darah ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" My SO is such a dick I have to fight ... [snip!] ... sounds exactly like my husband who spent the afternoon at a brewery. must be f**king nice to not have to be a f**king adult."</blockquote>




Haha I swear they are big babies

Lauralie89 3 kids; Pennsylvania 2244 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lauralie89:</b>" I have to do everything WITH SO here (he's ... [snip!] ... are fucked. It gets frustrating sometimes :/"</blockquote> That sounds frustrating. Like he's there but can't help."</blockquote>




Yep, exactly. He's tried a few times to do dishes to help but it just hurt too much standing up at the sink. When I do get frustrated or mad I then get mad at myself because he can't help it and I know that

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" Lol somewhat. SO gives me my Saturday ... [snip!] ... I got him on that early schedule bc he is so lazy. He's thanking me now bc he is doing better in business getting up before 9"</blockquote>



He's slowly getting better. He works 5 days a week in a warehouse lifting 50+ pound batteries all day so I guess I'm just grateful he has steady work LOL

HippieBabie BFTs 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 9722 posts
27th Jan '13
Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The ... [snip!] ... He works 5 days a week in a warehouse lifting 50+ pound batteries all day so I guess I'm just grateful he has steady work LOL"


oh yeah that is tough. Once LO gets older maybe it will get easier. Just don't get pregnant again (trust me), :)

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" oh yeah that is tough. Once LO gets older maybe it will get easier. Just don't get pregnant again (trust me), :)"</blockquote>




Lol I'm trying my best not to. My dr refused to give me the only kind of birth control I was comfortable with so next month I have to set up an appointment with a different dr so I can get the mini pill

HippieBabie BFTs 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 9722 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting HippieBabie BFTs:</b>" oh yeah that is tough. Once LO gets ... [snip!] ... control I was comfortable with so next month I have to set up an appointment with a different dr so I can get the mini pill"</blockquote>



You should check out fertility awareness

SubLowe 1 child; Oceanside, California 15387 posts
27th Jan '13

The OP was deleted so im not excaly sure what the topic was about but from all other responses i want to throw my 2 cents in hehe.
I stay Home with Nika, doing the whole homeschooling thing, while taking care of the farm ( well just check on chickens, feed them, collect eggs, contact the chef that buys them from us , deliver to her, make sprouts for our customers .. this is now in the winter time ) i also need to make soaps ( which is working with Lye bc i make t from scratch and cant have my lil one with me bc the fumes may be harmful in the early stages of making soap) i also need to make Raw energy bars, in a clean environment, without having to wash my hands every minute bc i have to go tend to our 3 year old. I dont ever get to go out to hang out with friends unlesswe are talking about kid gymnastics and library as a mommmy date or something. He on the other hand works a second job while he takes care of our farm, but he also goes out without telling me sometimes, just on his way home from work, just stopped by his friends to smoke a blunt or have a few beers, comes home like 5 hours After he was supposed to be outta work. ... Men are selfish! And they will never change lol .. how long have i been venting about my SO? since weve met over 4 years ago lol. they adjust but never change. And i totally feel you about not being ABLE to go out bc you are BFing. hose boys are attached to you and as much as it brings you love and happpiness it can sometimes be frustrating, and as someone has mentioned .. your hubby may just see the frustration and stress. He should definatelly try to help in any ways he can, but as far as those boys being attached to you as much as they are .. its beyond him. Once you leave he will be stuck at home with 2 boys that want a boobie and he doesnt have one .. He probably just doesnt want to deal with the situation so he avoids it by not giving you the opportunity to go out and enjoy yourself, bc that will leave him stuck at home.

HippieBabie BFTs 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 9722 posts
27th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting OneLoveMama:</b>" The OP was deleted so im not excaly sure what the topic was about but from all other responses i want ... [snip!] ... situation so he avoids it by not giving you the opportunity to go out and enjoy yourself, bc that will leave him stuck at home."</blockquote>



My SO has done that to me so many times (going out after work not telling me what's going on) I never knew when to expect him home. Now since I turned to the dark b***h side he's not doing it so much and actually checks with me first. It's true my kids are so attached to me but again I just got fed up a few times from stress and hormones and just left him with the kids crying. It taught him he can calm them down and he's started to take them out once in a while.



We both have been venting about our SOs forever lol