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One un-happy momma. Mommy&Princess 1 child; Arkansas 338 posts
27th Jan '13

Ugh. I am so mad, and completely hurt. :'(
I really need someone to talk to...
I cannot afford to stress, I don't want to lose my baby...
</3 ugh.

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
27th Jan '13

whats going on momma? Feel free to PM me if you dont wanna chat in a thread

♥MamaToSilas♥ 1 child; Illinois 9176 posts
status 27th Jan '13

What the matter?
Its better to talk then to stress!

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
27th Jan '13
Quoting ❥Sweet Baby Love:" whats going on momma? Feel free to PM me if you dont wanna chat in a thread"


:!:

The Pretty Poodle™ 1 child; Illinois 7341 posts
27th Jan '13

YOU ARE ON A SITE FULL OF LISTENING EARS!!!! Dont be afraid to vent...

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
27th Jan '13

Oh, and if it's baby daddy issues, seriously, feel free to talk to me.
I've been through it all, girl.

willoughfam Due May 26; 3 kids; Burlington, North Carolina 331 posts
27th Jan '13

Post it up mama! BG is full of people to help!

Mommy&Princess 1 child; Arkansas 338 posts
27th Jan '13

Well. Let's just say it started with the statement, "I don't like to text all day, all we ever say is I love you and it's getting old..." Talk about a heart breaker.



Also he is ALWAYS gaming, don't get me wrong I like to game too, but I mean he can't even take 5minutes out of his game to give me a little undivided attention, even if it's important.



I love him to death but it hurts. I spend most of every day alone at my parents house, and I am pregnant and do kinda feel a bit more "needy" of him.. I don't know, maybe I am just over reacting.

Mommy&Princess 1 child; Arkansas 338 posts
27th Jan '13

I just want a hug and now I am crying like a freakin idiot :'(

♥MamaToSilas♥ 1 child; Illinois 9176 posts
status 27th Jan '13
Quoting TaylorJennings:" Well. Let's just say it started with the statement, "I don't like to text all day, all we ever say is ... [snip!] ... my parents house, and I am pregnant and do kinda feel a bit more "needy" of him.. I don't know, maybe I am just over reacting."


You're not over reacting! We've all been through it. Its the new hormones sweetheart. Its part of pregnancy. Don't feel stupid or anything. He is being insensitive if he's ignoring you. Talk to him and tell him that its hurting you and you just want a little bit of one on one time.

willoughfam Due May 26; 3 kids; Burlington, North Carolina 331 posts
27th Jan '13

You sound just like me! My husband is a HUGE gamer! Always has been and before we got married, we split for over a month because he became addicted to xbox live. We split again while I was pregnant with DS3 because of his addiction to WoW. I am a HUGE gamer as well, but I can tear myself away from the xbox for a movie or game night whereas he couldn't. I just told him that I needed attention and we came to a compromise. When he games, I game with him, as long as I am awake (I don't care what he does while I sleep). But he has to sit through Teen Mom with me EVERY week, and atleast once a week once the kids are in bed, we cuddle up with popcorn and watch a movie. Just ask him if you can set aside time every couple of days to do something together that you can both enjoy.

Mommy&Princess 1 child; Arkansas 338 posts
27th Jan '13
Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:" You're not over reacting! We've all been through it. Its the new hormones sweetheart. Its part of pregnancy. ... [snip!] ... if he's ignoring you. Talk to him and tell him that its hurting you and you just want a little bit of one on one time."


When he told me to "stop being so moody towards him"... I was just like, Did you forget I am pregnant, I don't just direct them towards you.... Today's been one of my bad days, everything irritated me and upset me... I just need a hug -_-

♥MamaToSilas♥ 1 child; Illinois 9176 posts
status 27th Jan '13
Quoting TaylorJennings:" When he told me to "stop being so moody towards him"... I was just like, Did you forget I am pregnant, ... [snip!] ... just direct them towards you.... Today's been one of my bad days, everything irritated me and upset me... I just need a hug -_-"


Hang in there mama. I had horrible mood swings too :( He needs to be more understanding.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
27th Jan '13
Quoting TaylorJennings:" Well. Let's just say it started with the statement, "I don't like to text all day, all we ever say is ... [snip!] ... my parents house, and I am pregnant and do kinda feel a bit more "needy" of him.. I don't know, maybe I am just over reacting."


It's your hormones. Even though the texting comment is a bit hurtful regardless.
Not now, but soon, you need to sit him down and have a talk with him. Tell him that you know getting ready to have a baby is a huge thing, and it's hard, but that it's hard on you too. You need his support and you need a little understanding when it comes to your hormonal outbursts. Ask him what you can do to help him cope also.



It's not just your life that's changing all over, it's his too. A nice, long, calm discussion may just help you guys.



Also, he's a teenage boy. They're immature and usually think of themselves first, so you just need to remind him you need a little somethin' too.