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Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
30th Jan '13
Quoting AwaitingHisArrival:" Okay, so My story actually begins from the time I was 16. I met BD and we had so much in common. We shared ... [snip!] ... details, but thats my story! Here I am a single mommy and I love having the blessings in my life that I call children! :)"

girl your story really gave me goosebumps!! im so sorry you had to deal with someone like that. holding a gun to you, wanting to pull a belt out on your 2 year old!? omg. im soo sorry. i really hope you find someone who can be there for you and your kids!! im here if you ever need to talk(:

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
30th Jan '13
Quoting AwaitingHisArrival:" Okay, so My story actually begins from the time I was 16. I met BD and we had so much in common. We shared ... [snip!] ... details, but thats my story! Here I am a single mommy and I love having the blessings in my life that I call children! :)"

girl your story really gave me goosebumps!! im so sorry you had to deal with someone like that. holding a gun to you, wanting to pull a belt out on your 2 year old!? omg. im soo sorry. i really hope you find someone who can be there for you and your kids!! im here if you ever need to talk(:

AwaitingHisArrival Due April 2; 2 kids; Japan 31 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" girl your story really gave me goosebumps!! im so sorry you had to deal with someone like that. holding ... [snip!] ... omg. im soo sorry. i really hope you find someone who can be there for you and your kids!! im here if you ever need to talk(:"


Thank you so very much. Theres not a day that goes by that i really wish things were different. :/ Baby #3 is due in just about 8 weeks... :) so I'm really looking forward to that! :)

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting AwaitingHisArrival:" Thank you so very much. Theres not a day that goes by that i really wish things were different. :/ Baby #3 is due in just about 8 weeks... :) so I'm really looking forward to that! :)"

your welcome! and awh congrats!(: i wanna have another kid whenever i get a little older and get married lol(: i'd like to try for a girl haha(:

AwaitingHisArrival Due April 2; 2 kids; Japan 31 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" your welcome! and awh congrats!(: i wanna have another kid whenever i get a little older and get married lol(: i'd like to try for a girl haha(:"


Girls are so much fun!!! My two girls are 6 and 3 and they are absolutely SO much fun!!!!!!! :) I'm excited to finally be having my boy! :) And Thank you so very much on the congrats!!! I will definitely keep you posted as to when he decides to make his arrival!!! :)

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting AwaitingHisArrival:" Girls are so much fun!!! My two girls are 6 and 3 and they are absolutely SO much fun!!!!!!! :) I'm ... [snip!] ... And Thank you so very much on the congrats!!! I will definitely keep you posted as to when he decides to make his arrival!!! :)"

yes i had a boy(: which is what i wanted first lol! i have a niece and i love doing her toenails and hair, so if i had a girl she would be soo spoiled lol! they are really fun though(: and your welcome!! yes keep me posted(:

Bri&Mav 1 child; North Carolina 531 posts
31st Jan '13

I met my BD my freshman year of high school. Of course, I fell in love and thought he would be the one. He was secretly dating a girl who I did NOT get along with at all. Sure enough she got pregnant. I stopped talking to him until way after she had the baby. I decided to give him another chance thinking he would grow up and be different. Well, after 2 years of bull shit....him cheating, lying, using me, etc....we found out we were pregnant. I was supposed to be going away to college the next month, but realized that wasn't the best option. Everything was going fine between us, he had got a job and was going to school. We had even gotten a house! Next thing I know, he's got another girlfriend. He even stole my car, left me with his son, to go have sex with this girl in my car! That was the end. I completely stopped communication with him..He is 20 almost 21 dating a 15 year old. Well, he's living with her now. Well, I asked if he would pay half for the car seat, THAT'S IT. His response was, "you can't make me pay for shit". And he talks about not having money but yet today he got a brand new iPhone. But he can't pay $50 for a damn car seat! He's so freaking pathetic. I HATE HIM!

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Bri (34 weeks) :):" I met my BD my freshman year of high school. Of course, I fell in love and thought he would be the one. ... [snip!] ... money but yet today he got a brand new iPhone. But he can't pay $50 for a damn car seat! He's so freaking pathetic. I HATE HIM!"

honey, i know exactly your feeling!! sounds like my baby daddy. he is now dating a 21 year old girl and he is 17. they are suppose to be getting married in april just after dating her for 1 week! and they are trying to have a kid, he doesn't even take care of the one he has! but he sounds soo pathetic, not even buying a 50 dollar carseat!? smh. im sorry you have to deal with that. i hope all the girls that posted on this, that have dead beat daddies, can find a guy who will treat them and their babies good! we all deserve it, for real . and honestly, i hate my baby daddy too! he straight up called my son ugly and denies him! i hope he never comes around again, you can't just be a dad for a day, you have to be a dad for a lifetime!

Bri&Mav 1 child; North Carolina 531 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" honey, i know exactly your feeling!! sounds like my baby daddy. he is now dating a 21 year old girl and ... [snip!] ... and denies him! i hope he never comes around again, you can't just be a dad for a day, you have to be a dad for a lifetime!"


I agree! I don't see how someone can be so awful! My BD told me that my baby was going to die before I gave birth and called him a bastard...He denies him also. I'm just like you are truly a dumbass! Its a shame.

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Bri (34 weeks) :):" I agree! I don't see how someone can be so awful! My BD told me that my baby was going to die before ... [snip!] ... to die before I gave birth and called him a bastard...He denies him also. I'm just like you are truly a dumbass! Its a shame."

well im here if you ever need anyone to talk to! it sucks but they will regret it one day! the best we can do is be there for our babies and love them(:

Mia and Emmas Mommy Due December 9; 2 kids; Palm Desert, California 282 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Bri (34 weeks) :):" I met my BD my freshman year of high school. Of course, I fell in love and thought he would be the one. ... [snip!] ... money but yet today he got a brand new iPhone. But he can't pay $50 for a damn car seat! He's so freaking pathetic. I HATE HIM!"


take him to court for child support that is bs!

Kimberly Nielson Due June 8; Utah 4 posts
3rd Feb '13

Hello everyone. My name is Kim. I just joined here at BabyGaga and found the single parenting link. I am, like I said new to this lol but Id like to share my story. I am now 27 years old. I have a just about 6 year old daughter. Me and her dad split shortly before her 1st birthday mostly due to his excessive drikning and verbal abuse. He has been involved with her to the point of having her on his days off to take her to have fun. Unfortunatly, thats about as far as that goes. H e has never had an interest in attending school functions or anything esle. At age 3 and a half my baby girl was diagnosed with cancer. She needed full time care therefore I quit my job to do so. I was just givin the ok from her doctors in June of 2012 to go back to work now that things are good :) but unfortunatly not alot of people want to hire a single mother who has been out of work for 2 and a half years lol and then in October of 2012 I found out that I am preganat. Now in my 22nd week, I just recently found out that the father of my 2nd child killed himself to avoid being involved. So, now I face this alone...again. Due to my daughters diagnosis of cancer and the facts that is rare enough that they do not know if it is genetic or not I am terrified. I am happy to be blessed with another child considering once berfore my daughter and twice after I lost all the other pregnancies but I am scared to death......being recently put the ringer in court with my ex over custody and having to move...again I am tired...theres the jist of my story lol but any advice on how to maybe prepare for this new bundle of joy would be so appreciated :) thank you so much....

Kimberly Nielson Due June 8; Utah 4 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Kimberly Nielson:" Hello everyone. My name is Kim. I just joined here at BabyGaga and found the single parenting link. I ... [snip!] ... my story lol but any advice on how to maybe prepare for this new bundle of joy would be so appreciated :) thank you so much...."To add just one more thing, and this is something Im not proud of and do not like to admitt but unfortunatly due to all the stress Ive been under I do chain smoke and I am terrified of what that may due to my unborn child....:( I am in need of some helpful advice to get through it all....
Mia and Emmas Mommy Due December 9; 2 kids; Palm Desert, California 282 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Kimberly Nielson:" Hello everyone. My name is Kim. I just joined here at BabyGaga and found the single parenting link. I ... [snip!] ... my story lol but any advice on how to maybe prepare for this new bundle of joy would be so appreciated :) thank you so much...."


thats really sad :( I suggest doing core blood banking they will work with u if ypu really want to that if your 6 yr old daughter or this new joy has an issue that will help. I really feel for you and wish you the best! as for advice man it is tough to be a single parent the best you can do if take it 1 day at a time and eventually things will be better. maybe try looking into a moms group in your area for support best of luck hugs <3



:'(

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 618 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Kimberly Nielson:" Hello everyone. My name is Kim. I just joined here at BabyGaga and found the single parenting link. I ... [snip!] ... my story lol but any advice on how to maybe prepare for this new bundle of joy would be so appreciated :) thank you so much...."

you can deff message me and ill give you as much advice as possible honey!(: