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Mrs.O! 18 kids; Hawaii 21037 posts
status 28th Jan '13
Quoting pants88:" i didnt ask him if he remembers .. he was more or less like you told me lets forget and move on and havnt talked about it since."


was there a special reason you guys went out that weekend? or was it even a weekend...remembering what day of the week you guys got together?...

pants88 1 child; McClure, Ohio 197 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting Mrs.O!:" was there a special reason you guys went out that weekend? or was it even a weekend...remembering what day of the week you guys got together?..."


it was a me n so fighting just wanna go out and drink with my bff. i dont remember what day i drank a lot back then and if i didnt go to a bar id drink at home..

Mrs.O! 18 kids; Hawaii 21037 posts
status 28th Jan '13
Quoting pants88:" it was a me n so fighting just wanna go out and drink with my bff. i dont remember what day i drank a lot back then and if i didnt go to a bar id drink at home.."


darn...the day could've helped out a lot...I suggest you should totally tel SO though..I mean, he deserves to know and if you guys are being honest with each other I think he should know all your concerns.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting pants88:" do you have any suggestions on how to bring it up?"



no, I dont... sorry :(



good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
28th Jan '13

Facebook? Any pictures or status updates from the night that it happened.
It may not even matter, if you had sex with both of them within a few days it could be either of theirs.

pants88 1 child; McClure, Ohio 197 posts
28th Jan '13


Quoting Monkey Nuts:" Facebook? Any pictures or status updates from the night that it happened. It may not even matter, if you had sex with both of them within a few days it could be either of theirs."



no i dont facebook private things and i didnt have a phone so i didnt put at the bar or anything like that. as my status..

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 4502 posts
status 28th Jan '13

I don't know why your Mother is saying you have been with your boyfriend for 3 years and didn't get pregnant and then you cheat and you are pregnant, like she is kind of implying your boyfriend isn't capable of getting you pregnant. Perhaps in normal circumstances that might be an indicator however you have already stated the fertility issues were with you and your cysts and it was after the surgery you got pregnant therefor your Mother's thinking makes no sense whatsoever.



Given that your ex has apparently had the snip, that the fertility issues lay with you and you were able to get pregnant after the surgery to correct them I would say it's likely your boyfriends child.