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SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
28th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaSav2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" ... [snip!] ... would be really really effective. Good luck to you. Keep us posted."</blockquote> Your man must have superman Sperm."</blockquote>



He likes to think.. Lol



But really I'm extremely fertile, too. It's a deadly combination.

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting !!Katie!!:" If you "can't" be a parent, you have no business having sex...and especially Unprotected sex, period. Good luck, and I really hope for your sake, that you aren't !"


Lmao really? :roll:
That is ignorant to say. A lot of people aren't ready to be parents. doesn't mean the stay abstinent

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104771 posts
status 28th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Hayley**:</b>" So every single couple that can't afford kids shouldn't have sex? Its going to happen. I know to be ... [snip!] ... birth control. It was a mistake once. Teenagers fuck up and make mistakes. I am NOT perfect but it will not be happening again"</blockquote>
Don't listen to these idiots. I will never have another child. If i get pregnant I will have an abortion. So according to them, I shpudlt have sex. But fuck that. Sex is fucking amazing. You're doing the right thing.



You should look into implanon. That one does last 3 years and isnt as hard on your body as depo, especially when coming off it.

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
28th Jan '13

I know this is pretty much off topic about the OP, well kind of...but the depo shot is awful. At least it was for me, I bled FOREVER! You may wanna do some research on other types of BC before deciding on the depo. It might work for you though, I have really bad luck when it comes to things like that.



Anyways, good luck girl!

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" Sex shouldn't be glorious for somebody that ... [snip!] ... of consent in Cali. Just because you had a shitty ass experience doesn't mean every one will. People enjoy sex. Sorry you dont"

I never said I had a bad experience or anything like that. FFS She asked for advice and I gave it. There was no reason for anybody to be a bitch to me about it. I gave her part of my personal experience and what else could happen and yall went bat shit on me.

yourstruly, California 51 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Hayley**:</b>" So every single couple that can't afford kids ... [snip!] ... You should look into implanon. That one does last 3 years and isnt as hard on your body as depo, especially when coming off it."


I will look into that. Thank you very much for being helpful..

!!Katie!! 1 child; Tennessee 2794 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting risssa ♥:" Lmao really? :roll: That is ignorant to say. A lot of people aren't ready to be parents. doesn't mean the stay abstinent"

It's actually not ignorant at all. She's 16 years old, she's not even an adult.

yourstruly, California 51 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting Colton's Mommy ♥:" I know this is pretty much off topic about the OP, well kind of...but the depo shot is awful. At least ... [snip!] ... the depo. It might work for you though, I have really bad luck when it comes to things like that. Anyways, good luck girl!"

If i am not i will compare them all and see which would be best. Thank you girl :)

user banned Due April 8; 1 child; Washington 11352 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting !!Katie!!:" It's actually not ignorant at all. She's 16 years old, she's not even an adult. "



And I'm 17 :lol: I think you're ignorant if you think teenagers are NOT going to have sex.

P3RvYmCp3rv 2 kids; Carlyle, Illinois 11904 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting **Hayley**:" If i am not i will compare them all and see which would be best. Thank you girl :)"


Here's a chart that kind compares them. You have to scroll down a bit though :) http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/birth-control-methods.cfm

!!Katie!! 1 child; Tennessee 2794 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" I never said I had a bad experience or anything like that. FFS She asked for advice and I gave it. There ... [snip!] ... be a bitch to me about it. I gave her part of my personal experience and what else could happen and yall went bat shit on me. "

Seriously.



And you know, it's natural that people make mistakes...but everyone here is just condoning it, like it's totally cool to have sex at 16.



These people are going to be the ones with grand children at the age of 30...

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
28th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting !!Katie!!:</b>" It's actually not ignorant at all. She's 16 years old, she's not even an adult. "</blockquote>




You know, Marissa here is 17 & she is a damn good mother! Age doesn't define what type of parent you will be. A lot of us "teen moms" had to grow up a longggg time ago.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104771 posts
status 28th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting !!Katie!!:</b>" It's actually not ignorant at all. She's 16 years old, she's not even an adult. "</blockquote>




Who the hell cares? She's the age of consent, and that's what matters. Y'all aren't her damn mother.

T + H = My World 2 kids; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 3457 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" I never said I had a bad experience or anything like that. FFS She asked for advice and I gave it. There ... [snip!] ... be a bitch to me about it. I gave her part of my personal experience and what else could happen and yall went bat shit on me. "


nobody went bat shit on you lmao

!!Katie!! 1 child; Tennessee 2794 posts
28th Jan '13
Quoting risssa ♥:" And I'm 17 :lol: I think you're ignorant if you think teenagers are NOT going to have sex."

I never said I don't think teenagers are going to have sex. I said if you think you "Can't" be a parent, don't do it...and you will have nothing to worry about.



If you think you're old enough to have sex, then you're also old enough to deal with getting pregnant.