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Please read . 17 . Pregnant with bi-racial baby . flY High FREEBIRd Due June 13 (girl); Deatsville, Alabama 6 posts
30th Jan '13

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Hello . I'm Carly . Today is January 30 , 2013 . i'll be 17 in 6 days , and i find out the gender of my baby in 5 .. Im 20 weeks and 5 days pregnant with a bi-racial baby . My boyfriend is 21 years old , and black , and before i got pregnant , my important family members ( grandmother , great--grandmother , mother , stepdad ) i let know he was black because it wasn't like me to date outside of my own race . I never had anything against it , i was just not attracted to anyone that wasn't in my race . He asked me out , i figured he was a good guy , and then we fell in love <3
8 months down the road , i get pregnant with his young due to anitbiotics cancelling out my birthcontrol , shortly after i had my wisdom teeth taken out back in September . . We're doing WONDERFUL . We honestly never argue , he treats me how a woman should be treated . It took someone of the opposite race to show me how it is to be truely loved , and not do me wrong . At first my mother and grandmother was mad about what my babies skin color would be , but only because they know that living in Alabama , the South , it's very frowned apon , and they don't want people talking about me , or treating me any different , they really are veryyy defensive towards me . The ONLY 2 people in my family that has a problem with , and dropped me because of it , it is my moms brother , and my moms father . I am not close to neither of them so it honestly doesn't effect me , but when my uncle says his 2 daughters cannot be around my boyfriend , and he calls me the names he does , it makes me mad . Everyone in my family is excited for me , even though my age and my babies race , they seen past it and said they're going to love my " chocolate covered peanut " ! I have honestly never seen an ugly mixed baby . I need many prayers if you would , this hasn't been easy for me .. Stress is eating at me , and depression . I constantly worry because my mom and stepdad aren't doing good , he's the only father i've had since i was 10 , and they are falling apart . He's turned to popping Zanex and drinking alot , i was living with my grandmother until i found out i was pregnant because she has custody of me , and has since i was 5 , and i moved back in with my mom and stepdads because i want my mother to be in my babys life , since she wasn't in mine much . Currently i am staying with my grandmother as well as my mom , with all my belongings at my moms , because my stepfather got arrest for a DUI and took a bunch of Zanex .. He normally isn't like this . He just turned to alcohol and drugs in the past year .. i just don't want to put myself , or my baby in danger .. People constantly tell me to give my baby up for adoption because my life is over and noone is going to ever love me if something happens to me and my boyfriend because of my babies race , funny thing is , NOONE THAT HAS TOLD ME THAT IS MY FAMILY ! I want to be a wonderful mother to my baby , and i believe i will because how i had to grow up , and how unfair my life was .

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
30th Jan '13

I am not sure what the race of your baby has to do with anything. Life is unfair for everyone.

LysW 2 kids; Turner, Me, United States 10846 posts
30th Jan '13

I didn't read all of that... But saying bi-racial is ridiculous. Pregnant with a BABY! And saying you never have seen an guy bi-racial is crazy.. Soo have you seen ugly "white" babies? Ugh

Aliyah'sMommyBri :) 17 kids; Stafford, Virginia 3433 posts
30th Jan '13

Im white.
Life's still unfair.
My kid is half-salvadorian and that does not define my child or my "important families" love for her.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36616 posts
30th Jan '13

Why did you post this twice?

LysW 2 kids; Turner, Me, United States 10846 posts
30th Jan '13

Why would anyone care what the "color" is? I would be more concerned you are 17.

Michael Myers 2 kids; Slaughter, Louisiana 3408 posts
30th Jan '13

We gonna party like its 3012 tonight, I wanna show you all the finer things in life. So just forget about the world, we young tonight..

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104951 posts
30th Jan '13

I didnt even read that. You sound like an idiot. Who cares what race your child is? Do you want people to be proud of you for dating outside of your race?

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36616 posts
30th Jan '13
Quoting LysW:" I didn't read all of that... But saying bi-racial is ridiculous. Pregnant with a BABY! And saying you never have seen an guy bi-racial is crazy.. Soo have you seen ugly "white" babies? Ugh"


I have... I birthed one... :oops: ...Now at 15 months he is getting cute!

nothing to see Due August 21 (boy); 2 kids; Japan 602 posts
30th Jan '13

what does the fact that your child is "biracial" matters in this post? ?

LysW 2 kids; Turner, Me, United States 10846 posts
30th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" I didnt even read that. You sound like an idiot. Who cares what race your child is? Do you want people to be proud of you for dating outside of your race?"</blockquote>




!!

Mr's&Family* 2 kids; Arizona 3699 posts
30th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Myers:</b>" We gonna party like its 3012 tonight, I wanna show you all the finer things in life. So just forget about the world, we young tonight.."</blockquote>




I've had JUST this part of that song stuck in my friken head ALL.DAMN.DAY.

Aliyah'sMommyBri :) 17 kids; Stafford, Virginia 3433 posts
30th Jan '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I have... I birthed one... :oops: ...Now at 15 months he is getting cute! "



LMAO!
My "biracial" kid was kinda wrinkly and weird lookin.
:D

LysW 2 kids; Turner, Me, United States 10846 posts
30th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I have... I birthed one... :oops: ...Now at 15 months he is getting cute! "</blockquote>




:) but she made it sound like they are superior! Babies are babies.. My daughter at 3 months went through a little ugly spell. She is gorgeous now though lol

mom2andrew&carter 18 kids; Leesburg, Florida 2159 posts
30th Jan '13
Quoting LysW:" Why would anyone care what the "color" is? I would be more concerned you are 17."

i agree why does it matter what color your baby is? im more concerned with you only be 17. I had my first baby when i was 21 and i thought i was young