Coping with miscarriage Have-Faith 17 kids; Georgia 18 posts30th Jan '13
Lost my baby this weekend after 11 weeks, Friday would of been the first ultrasound, Think postpartum has hit me again after this unexpected ordeal i find myself questioning if i could of done something different? idk, but im thank i have a 4 year old son and that we can try again thats whats keeping my head above water, but its still very hard find myself crying every night...just think i need a little support ...if any of you moms even had a lost how did you cope? seems so unreachable
katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts30th Jan '13
Quoting Have-Faith:" Lost my baby this weekend after 11 weeks, Friday would of been the first ultrasound, Think postpartum ... [snip!] ... every night...just think i need a little support ...if any of you moms even had a lost how did you cope? seems so unreachable"I'm still dealing with the loss of my m/c in July. Even though I'm pregnant again now still doesn't do it justice. I am right around the corner of my potential due date which was also the same time of my closest friends birthday, which passed away the same month I lost my baby. I feel like my loss was intensified; not only did I lose a very close friend, I lost my baby too. I'm really sorry for your loss. The pain never really goes away. You're in my thoughts mama <3
Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7572 posts30th Jan '13
I'm sorry. I had a miscarriage almost a year ago exactly and it took me a long time before I started to feel like myself again. One thing that helped me was getting a Molly Bear (it's a non-profit, if you Google it) made. It just, it's something there to commemorate and physically acknowledge the loss. Beyond the Molly Bear and time, the only thing that really helped me personally was getting pregnant again. Best wishes.
Have-Faith 17 kids; Georgia 18 posts30th Jan '13
Thanks so much guys, It feels so good to have women who can relate, i just cant believe i was 11 weeks me and my fiance had already started planning and getting excited smh i just cant wait to try again, it just seems like everything is hitting me at once, but thank you ladys! you guys are in my thoughts and prayers also
Kat♥TTC_Mama♥ TTC since Mar 2010; 64 kids; Madison Heights, Virginia 8876 posts30th Jan '13
even after 3 miscarraiges, im still coping about each one. its harder at times, but at start its hour by hour and go up from there to 3 hours at time be ok to days or even weeks. im still at day by day, some the bad days its 5 minutes at time
*((MoMmY Of 4))* 4 kids; San Bernardino, California 704 posts31st Jan '13
So sorry for your loss mama! :( I just recently had a MC but what keeps me going is my 3 beautiful kids I have now... hope it hurts less as time goes by.