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Do you make noise during sex / has he ever faked cumming?! Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13

Do you make noise during sex?
My recent ex just informed me that, according to him, he faked cumming in me, since it's a possibility I might be pregnant. He had faked it before. I could never figure out why, and admitted it, and would get off on pretending he came in me and then he would actually cum.



He dumped me 2 weeks ago, and I found him at the bar with another women the next day. I couldn't figure out why he dumped me. It was very random and out of the blue.



I think for him to have faked cumming in me so many times recently, either, I was really horrible at sex! OR he's lying and he did cum in me. I think maybe I was too loud? Or loose or something! I don't know what I did that turned him off so much, but I have really hated myself ever since. Everyday, I try to recover. I even went on vacation to an island. And now I'm dealing w/ this again.



Women fake orgasms all the time.



But for a man to? Well, that's a huge slap in the face.

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
31st Jan '13

It's okay for women to fake orgasms but it's supposed to hurt when a man does it? I'm sorry for what's going on with you, but man you've got some ignorant ass logic going on here.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Andromeda Strain:</b>" It's okay for women to fake orgasms but it's supposed to hurt when a man does it? I'm sorry for what's going on with you, but man you've got some ignorant ass logic going on here. "</blockquote>




:!:

Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" It's okay for women to fake orgasms but it's supposed to hurt when a man does it? I'm sorry for what's going on with you, but man you've got some ignorant ass logic going on here. "


From my experience and understanding, it's not a very common thing for a man to fake an orgasm. I'm not sure where you get off thinking that it's sexist to suggest that female and male sexual behavior differ.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Andromeda Strain:</b>" It's okay for women to fake orgasms but it's supposed to hurt when a man does it? I'm sorry for what's going on with you, but man you've got some ignorant ass logic going on here. "</blockquote>



I totally agree with you.



Also OP I have always been able to tell if my man did or did not cum in me. How do you not know if he did or not?

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11657 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" It's okay for women to fake orgasms but it's supposed to hurt when a man does it? I'm sorry for what's going on with you, but man you've got some ignorant ass logic going on here. "


Agree!

B,K,L,&T! 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Michigan 1094 posts
31st Jan '13

My husband and I are honest about things like that... if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. There's always next time. :twisted:

B,K,L,&T! 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Michigan 1094 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Andromeda Strain:</b>" It's okay for women to fake orgasms ... [snip!] ... with you. Also OP I have always been able to tell if my man did or did not cum in me. How do you not know if he did or not?"


:!:

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49349 posts
31st Jan '13

H-y-p-o-c-r-i-t-e.

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" H-y-p-o-c-r-i-t-e."</blockquote>




^ Exactly.

Brookelynn's Mommy 1 child; California 1388 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Andromeda Strain:</b>" It's okay for women to fake orgasms ... [snip!] ... with you. Also OP I have always been able to tell if my man did or did not cum in me. How do you not know if he did or not?"


I agree. I have always been able to feel it.

Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Andromeda Strain:</b>" It's okay for women to fake orgasms ... [snip!] ... with you. Also OP I have always been able to tell if my man did or did not cum in me. How do you not know if he did or not?"


Because I usually did get off and there was just a lot of wetness in general.



However, I think he's lying because I'm pretty sure he did cum in me. I think I would know....... but maybe perhaps not!

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Lady in the Garden:" From my experience and understanding, it's not a very common thing for a man to fake an orgasm. I'm ... [snip!] ... an orgasm. I'm not sure where you get off thinking that it's sexist to suggest that female and male sexual behavior differ."


I didn't say it was sexist, I said it was ignorant. I don't know the statistics on how often women fake orgasms compared to men, and I know that society portrays it happening a lot more with women, but that doesn't make it okay, and that doesn't mean that you get to be completely wounded by that fact alone.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady in the Garden:</b>" Because I usually did get off and there was just a lot of wetness in general. However, I think he's lying because I'm pretty sure he did cum in me. I think I would know....... but maybe perhaps not!"</blockquote>



I get wet too when I get off but there is a huge texture difference between the two.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Jan '13

Uhh, can a man fake it effectively? I can feel when DH gets off.




And have you faked it?