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Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" H-y-p-o-c-r-i-t-e."


Sure, ignore my comment and rhetorical question about female and male sexual behavior differing. Lol

Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" I didn't say it was sexist, I said it was ignorant. I don't know the statistics on how often women fake ... [snip!] ... with women, but that doesn't make it okay, and that doesn't mean that you get to be completely wounded by that fact alone. "


I suggested neither. That fact is not the sole wound, but the need to lie after a trust system was built.

armymommyof3 3 kids; Texas 276 posts
31st Jan '13

I want to say it would be pretty obvious if he faked....i mean not to be gross but you would know it comes out and alot of people can attest to this. Anyone can fake it i suppose it's just alot easier to tell when a man does. But even if he never came in you it's not illogical to think that having unprotected sex can still lead to pregnancy as there is a small amount of sperm in pre c*m

Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 22050 posts
status 31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Andromeda Strain:</b>" I didn't say it was sexist, I said it was ignorant. I don't know the statistics on how often women fake ... [snip!] ... with women, but that doesn't make it okay, and that doesn't mean that you get to be completely wounded by that fact alone. "</blockquote>




This.



I've never had a man fake it, I can get loud. The louder I get the harder it is for him to keep himself from finishing. I can tell when he's came inside me both during and after.

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Lady in the Garden:" From my experience and understanding, it's not a very common thing for a man to fake an orgasm. I'm ... [snip!] ... an orgasm. I'm not sure where you get off thinking that it's sexist to suggest that female and male sexual behavior differ."


I know guys who have done it, the told me about it and how they pulled it off. One guy even told me that he would pull out and spit on the girls back. Why do they do this you are wondering? Well One reason to fake it is so they can just get it over with, especially if they know that they are not going to be able to finish.


Why would they not be able to finish you ask?
1. They are on medication like anti-depressants
2. They just had sex earlier with you or someone different
3. They just rubbed one out and can't get off again yet.
4. They are on Drugs that make the body numb like any type of Opiate.

Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13

My mind is just blown away. Unless any of you have ever had a man tell you he faked c*****g in you multiple times........................don't tell me that shouldn't logically work out to meaning that I am sexually undesirable and incapable of pleasing a partner. I am nothing more than a humiliated loser. I went as far as to attack the girl he was seeing, who scratched the shit out of my arms that I still have scars from. His new GF is pretty unattractive. And for him to take her over me.....well, that must mean I'm either around the same ball park or less attractive. I'm just trying to learn how to live with it. I can't even respond to him about any of this after he told me that! WHHHAT?!

Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting applelove:" I know guys who have done it, the told me about it and how they pulled it off. One guy even told me ... [snip!] ... 3. They just rubbed one out and can't get off again yet. 4. They are on Drugs that make the body numb like any type of Opiate. "


Well, I think he was on vicodin.

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Lady in the Garden:" My mind is just blown away. Unless any of you have ever had a man tell you he faked c*****g in you multiple ... [snip!] ... I'm just trying to learn how to live with it. I can't even respond to him about any of this after he told me that! WHHHAT?! "


I don't understand why your anger is coming out at us? I asked if you've ever faked it and you didn't answer.

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Lady in the Garden:" My mind is just blown away. Unless any of you have ever had a man tell you he faked c*****g in you multiple ... [snip!] ... I'm just trying to learn how to live with it. I can't even respond to him about any of this after he told me that! WHHHAT?! "


He may have just grown apart? Some guys aren't just sexual beasts, a lot of them really do need a connection when it comes to a long-term sexual relationship. If he stopped being interested in sex, and then stopped the relationship, it probably just wasn't working for him. It doesn't have anything to your worth or your attractiveness or how good you are in bed- sometimes it just doesn't work.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting applelove:</b>" I know guys who have done it, the told me about it and how they pulled it off. One guy even told me ... [snip!] ... 3. They just rubbed one out and can't get off again yet. 4. They are on Drugs that make the body numb like any type of Opiate. "</blockquote>




Totally agree! There's times when DH and I have sex two, three times and by the fourth time he will just not be able to c*m. He doesn't pretend he does but still.



OP - doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you. Just seems like you got with an a*****e.

Brookelynn's Mommy 1 child; California 1388 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Lady in the Garden:" Well, I think he was on vicodin. "

My ex husband was on drugs and towards the end of our relationship he never got off, he could even stay hard to tell you the truth.

Lady in the Garden Japan 147 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" He may have just grown apart? Some guys aren't just sexual beasts, a lot of them really do need a connection ... [snip!] ... him. It doesn't have anything to your worth or your attractiveness or how good you are in bed- sometimes it just doesn't work. "


I have been scouting the past 2 weeks, and while on vacation. There were several men interested in me, not surprising to their primate nature. A few were decent, and worth conversating with as well...new friends really. However, for me personally, I have not found myself sexually attracted to anyone else. Except for a moment when I saw this other guy that kind of looked like him. There is just so much competition though since where I happen to live, there are many very beautiful young freshmen college girls.



Lost my point there... I don't understand how it is I could feel for him like that but him not for me! And how quick he was to replace me. I just can't do that. He looked so happy with her. They had a lot of chemistry.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
31st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady in the Garden:</b>" My mind is just blown away. Unless any of you have ever had a man tell you he faked c*****g in you multiple ... [snip!] ... I'm just trying to learn how to live with it. I can't even respond to him about any of this after he told me that! WHHHAT?! "</blockquote>




Maybe you have a shitty attitude or you are to clingy?

Devil's Advocate Beverly Hills, California 18191 posts
31st Jan '13

Wait, what does making noise have to do with it? Maybe I'm tired and missed something.

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
31st Jan '13
Quoting Lady in the Garden:" Well, I think he was on vicodin. "

I don't see why you think this has to do with you? If he was on Vicodin and could not feel it(because that is what the drug does, make you numb) then how is it your fault?



My SO who loves me very very much could not finish the other day, because of medication and I don't feel like I am some nasty person who can't please a man. So why do you?



Its not that big of a deal.