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Little Monster Mummy 30+ 51 kids; 3 angel babies; Tyngsboro, MA, United States 1926 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" I feel bad posting this in here with women talking about losing their children. I've been in here myself. ... [snip!] ... is a fine line between comfort and smothering, and I want to make sure I'm helping him the right way. I'm so very sad for him."


My dh went thru the same thing a few years back...just be there for him, let him know that if he wants to talk you'll listen, try to give him some space tho, it drove my dh nuts if i kept asking him if he was ok. i'm not sure about yours but my dh is a bit touchy feely, so if he was getting depressed or sniffly i would drop whatever i was doing and just hug him or rub his back, he said that made him feel better. sorry you're going thru this mama, gl.

adkjishaiu 3 kids; 1 angel baby; French Lick, IN, United States 45123 posts
status 1st Feb '13

This is heartbreaking. I'm so very sorry for his loss. I hope he finds peace soon and can heal from this.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25371 posts
1st Feb '13

Thank you so much. He went to work, I dont know why, and he keeps saying he just keeps thinking about him and all the stuff they did together and all the things he taught him. :(

adkjishaiu 3 kids; 1 angel baby; French Lick, IN, United States 45123 posts
status 1st Feb '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Thank you so much. He went to work, I dont know why, and he keeps saying he just keeps thinking about him and all the stuff they did together and all the things he taught him. :("

:cry:



I can't imagine.