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lying Brandi Lynn White 18 kids; Ravenna, Ohio 519 posts
1st Feb '13

Am I wrong to be pissed that my husband is lying to me. He knew before we got married that I would never marry a smoker, so he was hiding it and lying to me. I realized this and confronted him and he told me he wouldn't be buying them since we do not have the money for them he would only bum them off of friends. Well I just opened the dryer and cigg wrapping just fell out of the dryer. So that means he is buying them right? So he was lying to me again right? I just want to make sure that I am not just crazy thinking this before I confront him. We have two children to take care of and buying one pack is the same price as diapers and they cut back on his hours so my grandparent have been helping us with bills. So I think it is wrong to buy them when someone else has to help pay for our bills.

Christan_89 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8043 posts
1st Feb '13

It's not possible that a friend gave him a pack?

Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
1st Feb '13

How did you not know he was smoking :?



I dated a smoker briefly & could taste it when we kissed & smell it on his breath/clothing etc.



Ick!

JΔS Georgia 74495 posts
status 1st Feb '13

Perhaps he's having a hard time quitting? It isn't easy. He's probably hiding it from you because of the way you act.

Brandi Lynn White 18 kids; Ravenna, Ohio 519 posts
1st Feb '13

He quit for a whole year and just started back up. And the reason I didn't know is because I was staying at my grandparents during the end of my pregnancy due to complications. I am pissed my kids dont need to be around that especially since is a a reason for sids

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4164 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Ecstasy:" How did you not know he was smoking :? I dated a smoker briefly & could taste it when we kissed & smell it on his breath/clothing etc. Ick!"


This, DH smoked for awhile and there's NO way he could have hid it from me.



Plus how much are cigarettes where you live? Here the most expensive pack is $5 and the cheapest pack of diapers is $10. :?

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" Perhaps he's having a hard time quitting? It isn't easy. He's probably hiding it from you because of the way you act."


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lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
1st Feb '13

I'd be mad. My friends husband is doing the same thing to her and he told SO but I've been sworn to secrecy. I feel bad but I don't know if I should tell her or not. I don't want to ruin SOs friendship because he doesn't really have any friends. :( but I feel like its not fair to her :(

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
1st Feb '13

i would like to know where a pack or diapers is the same price as cigarettes........I would love to only pay 6 bucks for a box of diapers.

Brandi Lynn White 18 kids; Ravenna, Ohio 519 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" Perhaps he's having a hard time quitting? It isn't easy. He's probably hiding it from you because of the way you act."

what do you mean how I act I am looking out for my family

JΔS Georgia 74495 posts
status 1st Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brandi Lynn White:</b>" He quit for a whole year and just started back up. And the reason I didn't know is because I was staying ... [snip!] ... of my pregnancy due to complications. I am pissed my kids dont need to be around that especially since is a a reason for sids"</blockquote>



Okay? Maybe he's stressed? Support him instead of being a nagging wife. He was wrong for lying but I can see why he hid it from you.

Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Brandi Lynn White:" He quit for a whole year and just started back up. And the reason I didn't know is because I was staying ... [snip!] ... of my pregnancy due to complications. I am pissed my kids dont need to be around that especially since is a a reason for sids"


Ohhh ok, i thought he'd been smoking the enitre time & assumed you'd been together.



Try & be supportive, let him know you're really upset/angry & that he needs to quit again if hes picked the habit up.



I'd be pissed off, but thats how i'd handle it.

Brandi Lynn White 18 kids; Ravenna, Ohio 519 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Crazyhazel89:" i would like to know where a pack or diapers is the same price as cigarettes........I would love to only pay 6 bucks for a box of diapers."


well maybe not a whole pack of diapers but I know he used to only smoke one kind and they are like 6 and luvs are 6.95

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting Crazyhazel89:" i would like to know where a pack or diapers is the same price as cigarettes........I would love to only pay 6 bucks for a box of diapers."


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Hell, my cigarettes are only $3.84 and they're Newport reds. I wish I could find a pack of diapers for that cheap! :lol:

Brandi Lynn White 18 kids; Ravenna, Ohio 519 posts
1st Feb '13
Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brandi Lynn White:</b>" He quit for a whole year and just started ... [snip!] ... Maybe he's stressed? Support him instead of being a nagging wife. He was wrong for lying but I can see why he hid it from you."


not really a nagging wife just he entered in the relationship in a lie so why wouldnt i be pissed