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maybe ttc? Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16777 posts
2nd Feb '13

I think i might talk to the hubs about officially ttc again... id be about 12 weeks today and it still sucks. I want a baby so bad. Still havent even had my normal cycle yet. :/ i never thought getting pregnant, wanting a baby and all that stuff would be so confusing :/ we were so sure then.... and now idk. Looking at baby stuff, seeing my roommates baby and just babies everywhere is a constant reminder :/



After a miscarriage how long did u wait to ttc? Were you ttc to begin with? Why or why not did u chose to ttc again?

Rosa Newhouse 35 kids; Warrenton, North Carolina 135 posts
2nd Feb '13

they say wait 2 or 3 periods but i got pregnant before i even had time for one....we waited 2 weeks before have sex . that was after the D&C

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
2nd Feb '13

I was pregnant with LO less than a month after my last MC. So no I didn't wait.

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16777 posts
2nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rosa Newhouse:</b>" they say wait 2 or 3 periods but i got pregnant before i even had time for one....we waited 2 weeks before have sex . that was after the D&C"</blockquote>




We had sex the day i stopped bleeding. So maybe 4 days? And for a week straight.. i was determined i could pick back up where i left off....i know its not possible but i was hoping to :( and then we decided to wait. But idk if i want to anymore. :/

Rosa Newhouse 35 kids; Warrenton, North Carolina 135 posts
2nd Feb '13

we lost 2 before our little girl we never made it past fri ter it was hard and we wasnt really trying with her ....i was sad and sooo down but we still had sex bamm now we are 6 days away from meeting our little girl

Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
2nd Feb '13

I know how you feel. I still can't believe I'd be 32 weeks if I were still pregnant from my last angel.
I didn't wait. Just let the bleeding stop and got to it. Took like 2 cycles though.

Dean Winchester 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Alaska 16777 posts
2nd Feb '13

How did you all know you were ready?

I AM TRON 17 kids; Illinois 1482 posts
2nd Feb '13

It's been just short of two years for me. We weren't trying for that pregnancy either. DH and I immediately wanted to start trying again, but while waiting for a normal cycle to happen, I just kind of felt like I was only wanting to fill the void, and that I didn't really want a baby at the moment, but just to be pregnant. So I went back on BC. I felt like we really needed to wait to the point that we were just itching for another child in our family. We will be TTC starting in May.



If you wait until you are "over it", (like a lot of people who have never had M/Cs say) you will never have another child, or it may be a long time. If you have that much love waiting for a child to receive, I think it's safe to say you are ready. =]

LiLMuChAcHa22 1 child; California 3847 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Dean Winchester:" I think i might talk to the hubs about officially ttc again... id be about 12 weeks today and it still ... [snip!] ... :/ After a miscarriage how long did u wait to ttc? Were you ttc to begin with? Why or why not did u chose to ttc again?"


Aww I know exactly how you feel, if I didnt have a MC I would have a 6 month old right now and I am still here with no baby... Only been having sex once or twice a month since the MC been TTC but not really trying cuz 1-2 times is not enough even though I track ovulation