user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:" LETTING A 3 MONTH OLD BABY CIO IS WRONG YOU f**king RETARD. YOU COULDN'T HANDLE HER CRYING FOR 2 DAYS? ... [snip!] ... that you have conceived a child let alone still have custody... unless you don't and are hiding things just like Andrea. "

Also, quit being a slut.
:twisted:

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:" LETTING A 3 MONTH OLD BABY CIO IS WRONG YOU f**king RETARD. YOU COULDN'T HANDLE HER CRYING FOR 2 DAYS? ... [snip!] ... that you have conceived a child let alone still have custody... unless you don't and are hiding things just like Andrea. "


Oh, I am sorry you had a kid at 16, and then 17...



Wait, did I just judge you like you did me for having to put my baby down?.. My bad.




Here:
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Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Rd.:" Also, quit being a slut. :twisted:"


Lol, behave. :P

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:" LETTING A 3 MONTH OLD BABY CIO IS WRONG YOU f**king RETARD. YOU COULDN'T HANDLE HER CRYING FOR 2 DAYS? ... [snip!] ... that you have conceived a child let alone still have custody... unless you don't and are hiding things just like Andrea. "


calm down killer.
Letting a baby CIO because you can't deal with it any longer is NOT going to hurt the child.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" Lol, behave. :P"

hehehe

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
2nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:</b>" She should've gotten help when it got to this point though."</blockquote>



I agree. Some ppl don't realize they have ppd or want to admit it. I never admitted fear, needing help, etc but I got to a point where I HAD to. Sometimes when you try to tell so done they don't hear you. I kept telling my husband I was depressed and needed help and he just said said why are you depressed what do you want me to do about it? So I couldn't get help till I broke down and called his mom for help.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Rd.:" No no, I can see where they're coming from and what they're saying.. I just think that comment is out ... [snip!] ... what was said to me on this site, but a comment like that would hurt my feelings irl and I think it crosses a line to say that."


No one is saying OP is abusing her children.




Andrea kind of touches a nerve to a lot of us on BG. I didn't have an account yet when she was on here but I was lurking, and some of her posts indicated that she wasn't all that maternal with her children. The things she did to her child were f**king horrible. If we can prevent that we'll take it, even if some feelings get hurt. Again, not saying OP would ever do things like that.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [31 WEEKS!]:</b>" She should've gotten help when ... [snip!] ... why are you depressed what do you want me to do about it? So I couldn't get help till I broke down and called his mom for help."

Men can be dense. I had an episode last year where I was depressed and he was just a dick and said,"What do you want me to do about it?" (not in a nice way).



Glad you have other people as a support system. And it must be awesome to be that close to your MIL.

JustMe&MyThree 3 kids; Chicago, Illinois 518 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Rd.:" Lmao, after I had DD I was awake for 72 hours and falling asleep with her in my arms. My kid never slept until she was 2.5 years old. If you haven't been there stfu."


Dude... any mother has been there. Every child has had their times when they are inconsolable. Now, like I said before letting a 3 month old CIO is wrong I don't care how you spin it. Depressed or not. I was diagnosed and medicated for depression... so YEAH BEEN THERE DONE THAT. It's not okay. These kids are not to blame for any of our issues. And yeah you may need to walk away but to go as far as to say you didn't want the child or love the child and post the shit online and then later rehash it and lie about the details is absurd. Even she knew it was wrong. That's why she deleted the OP and she tried to make it seem like it was less than it was. You said you were awake for 72 hours trying to help your child feel better... that's what a mother does. We get no rewards other than a healthy happy child.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
2nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" Men can be dense. I had an episode last year where I was depressed and he was just a dick and said,"What ... [snip!] ... (not in a nice way). Glad you have other people as a support system. And it must be awesome to be that close to your MIL. "</blockquote>




Lol I'm actually not. She thought I got pregnant to trap my husband and that I was with him just for money. That i wasnt old enough for him even though i was three months older and i couldnt cook and wasnt skinny. She was just the closest relative so I went to her for help since I was scared to death of hurting my child.

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
2nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:</b>" Dude... any mother has been there. Every child has had their times when they are inconsolable. Now, ... [snip!] ... hours trying to help your child feel better... that's what a mother does. We get no rewards other than a healthy happy child. "</blockquote>




Sometimes when you are depressed you feel detached from your child and feel you don't love her/him

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" Men can be dense. I had an episode last year ... [snip!] ... and wasnt skinny. She was just the closest relative so I went to her for help since I was scared to death of hurting my child."


:(



PPD is so rough. You did the right thing, though. I didn't. I waited until it got awful and wound up in the hospital. But we live and learn right?

user banned 2 kids; Bellingham, Washington 1616 posts
2nd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" :( PPD is so rough. You did the right thing, though. I didn't. I waited until it got awful and wound up in the hospital. But we live and learn right? "</blockquote>




Yes it is. I'm glad you got help though. Some don't and end up hurting/killing their child. You still received help in time.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting S*its & giggles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" :( PPD is so rough. You did the right ... [snip!] ... Yes it is. I'm glad you got help though. Some don't and end up hurting/killing their child. You still received help in time."


I wanted to kill myself, not my child. I could give a f**k less about him, though. It was horrible.

ƒideℓis ϟ 1 child; Cherry Hill, New Jersey 5085 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" When I first had my oldest I was 18, and posted on here that I didn't want her. Then someone started ... [snip!] ... http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2023094.html Anyways, I kind of find it ironic.Thought I would share, some of her douche-ness"


Why don't you want anyone to look it up? Scared of both sides of the story coming out? And hiding the date won't change the difficulty of looking things up.