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Worried; STD Possibilities? NOT_READY_4_BABIES Maryland 5 posts
2nd Feb '13

I had sex with my boyfriend last night. Our condom broke but I know for a fact he pulled out before c*****g in me (long story short he pulled out nd grabbed a trashcan bcuz he felt it coming nd wouldn't make it to the bathroom--and said he needed to finish it since he felt it about to come...since we couldn't no more condoms) Pt of story is we both know we've had other partners so I asked him for my safety (nd he knew i wasnt effin around about this topic.) should I be the least bit concerned about catching something from you bcuz its NO JOKE let me know so i can see my dr and he said NO I ALWAYS WEAR A RUBBER EVEN THO I HATE THEM. and I'm almost positive he's a little smarter than to not wear one bcuz not talking about STDs but if he got a girl pregnant his mom would literally BEAT HIS A$$..no lie! (You should meet her, she's charming!) so I think he'd rather wear an uncomfortable condom not just for STD protection but for that pregnancy too I go to my drs to have my blood levels checked every 2 weeks for a medication im on that can affect my kidneys I kno that some STDs tend to show up in blood would it be safe for me to wait to see if anything abnormal shows up when it's tested on the 11th; monday of next week; when i have my blood checked? That way when all my blood work comes back that same week my dr can look at it and without anything said to him he'll say something out of concern to me if necessary

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
2nd Feb '13

Just wait.

E-08 & I-12's : Mamii 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 1266 posts
2nd Feb '13

Can someone explain how a condom breaks??

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
2nd Feb '13

STDs can take months sometimes years to show up.




No matter how scary a mom is, Id never take someones word when it comes to my goods.

MamaCass{+JOE} 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Pennsylvania 42355 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting E-08 & I-12's : Mamii:" Can someone explain how a condom breaks??"


Expired, tampered, used with certain lubes that compromise the latex, put on incorrectly.



It's rare, but it happens.

Squeaky McGee 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 63826 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting E-08 & I-12's : Mamii:" Can someone explain how a condom breaks??"


It's either put on improperly or there's not enough lube. It's happened to us like once in the 7 years we've been together.

~Ba.zin.ga~ Due December 4; 1 child; Under your bed, OO, United States 3762 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting E-08 & I-12's : Mamii:" Can someone explain how a condom breaks??"


When DH use condoms they break sometimes. It was always one certain brand so we stopped using them.

~Ba.zin.ga~ Due December 4; 1 child; Under your bed, OO, United States 3762 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Javi's Mami*[Bazinga!]:" When DH and I use condoms they break sometimes. It was always one certain brand so we stopped using them."
E-08 & I-12's : Mamii 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 1266 posts
2nd Feb '13

Okay so it actually rips/ tares in other words?

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting Javi's Mami*[Bazinga!]:" When DH use condoms they break sometimes. It was always one certain brand so we stopped using them."


Lmao. This reminds me of the guy I wanted to loose my virginity with. As soon as he put the condom on it broke. Turns out he bought it at the dollar store. :roll:



I'm so glad. I kicked him to the curve before I made the biggest mistake of losing my virginity to him.

Guyana 160 posts
2nd Feb '13

Do they specifically check for STD's in your blood when you go? You're probably going to have to get swabbed.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
2nd Feb '13
Quoting E-08 & I-12's : Mamii:" Can someone explain how a condom breaks??"


when the guy is um..too big. Then its time to get some magnums. So I heard. :oops:

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26154 posts
status 2nd Feb '13
Quoting E-08 & I-12's : Mamii:" Okay so it actually rips/ tares in other words?"


Yup. Lily is the product of a torn/messed up in some way condom. We NEVER saw it break or tear or anything, but we NEVER went without a condom. And lookie here... I have a daughter! lol

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
2nd Feb '13

It can take a while for an STD to even show up unless you ended up getting some kind of infection from him which would likely show up earlier. I would just wait and see if anything happens. How soon after it broke did he pull out? If it wasn't long it could be doubtful that you would have been able to catch anything anyways. You don't seem very trusting though...

E-08 & I-12's : Mamii 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 1266 posts
2nd Feb '13

Quoting FroggysMommy:" Yup. Lily is the product of a torn/messed up in some way condom. We NEVER saw it break or tear or anything, but we NEVER went without a condom. And lookie here... I have a daughter!




LOL!! Thanks