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Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1797 posts
3rd Feb '13

OK really? My husband and i are planning a t*******e, but our agreement is if there is to be any other contact with that person we let each other know. I can throw a girl on top of my husband and he still wouldn't touch her unless i was joining. This sounds like what my BIL is doing to my sister, they are swingers, but he has always taken that for granted and started cheating on my sister. This girl needs to leave the dude, that's what i would do.

Mak&Row 18 kids; Portland, Oregon 763 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Derp:</b>" Is this for real? The girlfriend should dump this guy because he sounds like an idiot. I'm all for couples ... [snip!] ... sure to tell the girlfriend and the coworker to double up on birth control or else they'll end up pregnant with Dipshit's baby."</blockquote>



Love this!!!! Made me laugh in the wee hours of the night!!! Dipshit's baby was my fav...

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Tay L:" So I guess he told her that sometimes he says things and he doesn't really mean it or plan on doing it. ... [snip!] ... guys coworker goes to. Its not even far from their apt. Like maybe 10min by car. I drove past their apt to get to the college."


oh yeah! thats all he was doing, trying to see how far she would go. PFft.




Your friend is still going to let this girl and her boyfriend f**k on Monday?? Seriously???



What the f**k is wrong with kids these days holy shit.

Cherry Davis Due March 11 (boy); 2 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 83 posts
3rd Feb '13

I actually had a very similar situation occur except he isn't my boyfriend he is my husband! The problem was I felt like it was being done behind my back and with girls he knew I would NEVER in a million years be interested in. The best course of action is to talk about it because in a t*******e situation with your spouse and another women your spouse comes out on top more (pardon the pun) I simply stated if he wanted an open relationship we could draw up paperwork and go our separate ways, because he chose me when he asked me to marry him. a t*******e should be fun for ALL parties not just benefiting him. He is clearly taking advantage of her she needs to stand her ground and make some choices.

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" oh yeah! thats all he was doing, trying to see how far she would go. PFft. Your friend is still going ... [snip!] ... going to let this girl and her boyfriend f**k on Monday?? Seriously??? What the f**k is wrong with kids these days holy shit. "</blockquote>




First of all, it was going to be a t*******e. But I guess the girl backed out this morning. The gf sent her a message and the girl backed out. The bf doesn't know about the message, the coworker just said she felt guilty. That wasn't even the gf's intent. Lol. But I guess it doesn't matter anymore cause its not happening. The bf and the gf even had a long talk about everything. And I guess they came to terms with things. He said he only said those things to see if the coworker was into it and if she was really down or is she was just joking. He thought she was going to back out and I guess she did, all cause the gf sent her a fb message, she said she didn't even mean for that to happen. She just didn't want them doing things with out her, she then found out it wasn't even actually like that. (And he isn't lying! Yeah most guys lie, but when you really know someone and know how they are, you know if they are lying or not. And he isn't.) But none of that matters, cause its not happening.

Mama MacGyver* 1 child; Tulsa, Oklahoma 12201 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tay L:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" oh yeah! thats all he was doing, ... [snip!] ... and know how they are, you know if they are lying or not. And he isn't.) But none of that matters, cause its not happening."</blockquote>




So it's just like it never happened..?

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama MacGyver*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tay L:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" ... [snip!] ... he isn't.) But none of that matters, cause its not happening."</blockquote> So it's just like it never happened..?"</blockquote>




I guess...

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user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Tay L:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" oh yeah! thats all he was doing, ... [snip!] ... and know how they are, you know if they are lying or not. And he isn't.) But none of that matters, cause its not happening."


this is starting to sound more like YOUR story then a friends. You are EXTREMELY defensive about your 'friends' boyfriend.



To each their own, whatever floats you boat. All I know is if SO and I agreed to an open relationship, the MINUTE I felt something was up, all bets would be off.

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" this is starting to sound more like YOUR story then a friends. You are EXTREMELY defensive about your ... [snip!] ... you boat. All I know is if SO and I agreed to an open relationship, the MINUTE I felt something was up, all bets would be off. "</blockquote>




Ok. They aren't in an open relationship. Just looked to have maybe a couple 3somes. (She had told him no to an open relationship.)

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Tay L:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" this is starting to sound more like ... [snip!] ... aren't in an open relationship. Just looked to have maybe a couple 3somes. (She had told him no to an open relationship.)"


Having threesomes to me is an open relationship is it not?

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Having threesomes to me is an open relationship is it not?"</blockquote>




No, an open relationship is when the partners are free to date and/or sleep with other people with the permission of the other partner.



I've had threesomes but I'd never have an open relationship. And having a t*******e with my s/o doesn't mean he can sleep with her or anyone else without me.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Having threesomes to me is an open ... [snip!] ... have an open relationship. And having a t*******e with my s/o doesn't mean he can sleep with her or anyone else without me."


oh....my BIG mistake.
not open :? just a t*******e kind of couple :roll:

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" oh....my BIG mistake. not open :? just a t*******e kind of couple :roll:"</blockquote>



Not sure why you're getting so f**king snotty with me, you asked and I politely answered.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" oh....my BIG mistake. not open ... [snip!] ... couple :roll:"</blockquote> Not sure why you're getting so f**king snotty with me, you asked and I politely answered."


im not getting f**king snotty, I really really dont see a BIG difference to 'open' meaning you sleep with anyone, compared to 'open' we invite others over for threesomes