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I need opinions. veggiehugger 1 child; Michigan 243 posts
3rd Feb '13

Ok, so I've had quite a few issues with the father of my baby. Recently we tried working things out one last time but ultimately he just cannot respect me.
We fought, and I asked him if he even cared about me.
His response? "Well it wouldn't be cool if you died or anything."
And then I asked him what that was supposed to mean and he just said "I'm just doing what I have to for Gavin (our baby)."
I told him that was still too vague and to just be straightforward with me but he said no and stormed off.



How the hell should I take that?

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23732 posts
3rd Feb '13

He doesn't want any type of relationship with you. He is being civil with you bc he wants a relationship with his kid.

veggiehugger 1 child; Michigan 243 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" He doesn't want any type of relationship with you. He is being civil with you bc he wants a relationship with his kid."


Was my thought too but I really don't understand men. I guess I just get thrown off because he always wants to stay the night with me? I don't know what he expects to happen. :/

*mommy to 3* Due March 7 (girl); 2 kids; Virginia 1167 posts
3rd Feb '13

I would take it as your relationship is over and that anything he has been trying to do was just for your kid. I would cut my losses and move on if I were you.

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