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Trust issues. Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5615 posts
3rd Feb '13

I haven't posted on here in awhile. I've been super busy with school/DS/SO that I was missing out on BG! Well, I've seemed to look for help on this subject everywhere and now BG seemed like the reasonable next choice.



How do you trust your SO? Especially if you've been badly hurt in the past?



I love SO dearly and he's perfect for me. The thing is, I can't trust him for shit. I have no idea why. He lied to me once in the way beginning of our relationship (about a month in) about something and I just haven't been able to get over it. I don't know what to do. I just can't stop stressing out about it.



I always promised myself I wouldn't let my past relationships get in the way of new ones and that's exactly what I'm doing. I'm afraid he's lying or not telling me the "whole truth". I don't know. His ex tries to contact him constantly and I guess it just freaks me out. God, help a girl out. I'm dying here.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 23736 posts
3rd Feb '13

Honestly, time is really the only thing

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5615 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" Honestly, time is really the only thing"


That's what I figured. I hate that I do this to myself. I hate that I can't just get over stuff, ya know? I always feel like it's going to turn into something more. I hate not having control over that stuff.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 23736 posts
3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ pinkman:</b>" That's what I figured. I hate that I do this to myself. I hate that I can't just get over stuff, ya ... [snip!] ... get over stuff, ya know? I always feel like it's going to turn into something more. I hate not having control over that stuff."</blockquote>



I know, but give it time..I promise one day you'll trust him (if he's worth your trust) it could take a year or two but it will happen if he's trustworthy

user banned Due December 20; Georgia 1823 posts
3rd Feb '13

First of all... and off topic, i LOVE your avi! Jesse is awesome.



Second, my SO broke my trust in a big way last year. It took a lot of time and therapy but I'm finally able to say that I trust him again.

Jays*Mama 2 kids; Michigan 5680 posts
3rd Feb '13

I was kind of the same way. Dh hasn't lied to me but I let a past relationship almost ruin my marriage. I just had major trust issues after my ex cheated on me several times. Dh literally almost divorced me over it. I suggest you not worry and realize your relationship will eventually end if you keep it up. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. Eventually the other person gets fed up. It took my dh leaving for me to snap out of it. I have completely changed. I realized he hasn't given me a reason to not trust him so why keep goingon about it..

JohnSilverSmith TTC since Dec 2011; 3 kids; Groton, Connecticut 465 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting ♥ pinkman:" I haven't posted on here in awhile. I've been super busy with school/DS/SO that I was missing out on ... [snip!] ... I don't know. His ex tries to contact him constantly and I guess it just freaks me out. God, help a girl out. I'm dying here."

I have major trust issues too. I don't know if time helps or not. It doesn't seem to so far. I guess you just keep pushing forward and take it a day at a time.

user banned Japan 41 posts
4th Feb '13

Good day,
It mighty be surprise to see my massage,
is a divine direction from Almighty.
well, Am Emelyne, Chamberlain,single 23year.
i wound mind,you write me here.
EVELYNECHAMBERLIN@GMAIL.COM
Love From Me.
Emelyne.

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 23736 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Emelyne.:</b>" Good day, It mighty be surprise to see my massage, is a divine direction from Almighty. well, Am Emelyne, ... [snip!] ... Emelyne, Chamberlain,single 23year. i wound mind,you write me here. EVELYNECHAMBERLIN@GMAIL.COM Love From Me. Emelyne."</blockquote>



Sexy bitch ill hitchu up

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5615 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emelyne.:</b>" Good day, It mighty be surprise to see my massage, ... [snip!] ... write me here. EVELYNECHAMBERLIN@GMAIL.COM Love From Me. Emelyne."</blockquote> Sexy bitch ill hitchu up"


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