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I miss my husband Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 3rd Feb '13

:( he had the overnight shift tonight and I'm kinda lonely. I wish I could bring ds to bed to cuddle but he won't sleep unless he's in his crib :( I swear I got married to be alone. I've never spent so many nights by myself as I have since being married. These hours were supposed to be short term two years ago.

lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
3rd Feb '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" :( he had the overnight shift tonight and I'm kinda lonely. I wish I could bring ds to bed to cuddle ... [snip!] ... never spent so many nights by myself as I have since being married. These hours were supposed to be short term two years ago."


I miss mine too...he's been gone since march 2012...

user banned New York 15996 posts
3rd Feb '13

It sucks. My husband works 5pm to 5am so I know what you're talking about.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 3rd Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" I miss mine too...he's been gone since march 2012..."</blockquote>




Deployed?

lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" I miss mine too...he's been gone since march 2012..."</blockquote> Deployed?"


Yup

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" Yup"</blockquote>




That's the shitty part. I'm the active duty one in our marriage doesnt that mean I'm supposed to be gone at night lol. But I'm sorry I'm know that must be hard on you. What branch is he? I'm navy.

lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" Yup"</blockquote> That's the shitty ... [snip!] ... that mean I'm supposed to be gone at night lol. But I'm sorry I'm know that must be hard on you. What branch is he? I'm navy."


He is in the Army

......................... Oregon 14226 posts
4th Feb '13

My husband works all the time. I hate it. He may not be gone like overnight? But he's ALWAYS at work. In his office, on a job site...etc...I hate it.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" He is in the Army"</blockquote>




I have full respect or military spouses. Idk if I could do it. You guys are truly the strong ones.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" My husband works all the time. I hate it. He may not be gone like overnight? But he's ALWAYS at work. In his office, on a job site...etc...I hate it."</blockquote>




Sigh :( he doesn't even make enough to make it worth it in my opinion

lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" He is in the Army"</blockquote> I have full respect or military spouses. Idk if I could do it. You guys are truly the strong ones."


I think there is strength on both sides. My husband has to say goodbye to us for a year and come back to grown up kids. That would be HARD

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8185 posts
status 4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" I think there is strength on both sides. My husband has to say goodbye to us for a year and come back to grown up kids. That would be HARD"</blockquote>




That's why I'm separating hopefully. I can't deploy and leave my son.

......................... Oregon 14226 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" My husband works all the time. I hate ... [snip!] ... on a job site...etc...I hate it."</blockquote> Sigh :( he doesn't even make enough to make it worth it in my opinion"


Mine doesn't either. He worked all day friday until about 7 oclock then went back to work on Saturday at 1 until about 7, and he's not going to get a raise or anything. His boss gave him a $40 bonus I heard. Like that really helps you know? To work so much.



We may get compensated later on. But right now it's nothing.



The other thing that pisses me off? They work in a small business, 4 employees and the boss. And the guys that work the most? Are the ones that are married, which means my husband another employee and the boss. The single guys think it's a 9-5 job and that's it.



He was supposed to not work today, but sure enough the boss calls again. About 6 times, something else is wrong and my husband needs to fix it.

lovinthem04 Due June 26 (boy); 19 kids; Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri 1999 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" I think there is strength on both sides. ... [snip!] ... grown up kids. That would be HARD"</blockquote> That's why I'm separating hopefully. I can't deploy and leave my son."


separating?