Mrs.Dani Due July 3; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Oxnard, California 10272 posts
4th Feb '13

Now I want to trace all my photos. :lol:

*Queen Bitch* (Expecting! Due December 20; TTC since Aug 2013; Georgia 1630 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Mr's&Family*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:</b>" Why do people feel the need to do that ... [snip!] ... leave them alone. Jesus"</blockquote> I was just thinking this! It's actually kind of creepy if you ask me."


ITA! Makes me happy I don't have any photos on here.

Noahs Mommy ❤ 16 kids; Arizona 628 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Mrs.Dani:" Now I want to trace all my photos. :lol:"

:!:
LOL same here

hiswifetheirmama TTC since Jun 2012; 34 kids; Michigan 215 posts
4th Feb '13

Stealing pictures....SMH OP! The exact reason I never post pictures of myself or kiddos.

desert☮rain 1 child; Phoenix, Arizona 7674 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Why do people feel the need to do that with all new members? Unless someone gives you a reason to be suspicious, leave them alone. Jesus"

Funny how I have never even done that before and the one time I do people throw a b***h fit. Even though it happens multiple times per day. Would you rather creepers come on this site stealing your pictures and posing them as theirs and doing god knows what else with them? Have fun with that

desert☮rain 1 child; Phoenix, Arizona 7674 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" Why do people feel the need to do that with all new members? Unless someone gives you a reason to be suspicious, leave them alone. Jesus"

I have seen that photo before, hence the reason for me to be suspicious. I suggest if you don't know the whole story, you keep your mouth shut :D

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
4th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting desert☮rain:</b>" I have seen that photo before, hence the reason for me to be suspicious. I suggest if you don't know the whole story, you keep your mouth shut :D"</blockquote>



No.



Yeah maybe once in a blue moon there's a reason. I'm saying in general that people on here do that way too often and it can scare off new members. Its gotten out of hand.

Jennocide. 2 kids; Louisiana 602 posts
5th Feb '13
Quoting ღ Diana ღ:" because they are pathetic. "Oh new person, must check if they are legit" That shit get's old regardless if their picture is not theirs, the OP may be real just hiding her identity. "


How is it getting old? I dont want to be talking and building a friendship with fake people.... Have you NOT SEEN "CATFISH" and what crazy, fucked up individuals are out there? I am not saying I am trying to gain some type of romance from anyone on BG, but a lot of us build friendships, and we deserve to know who is real and who isn't.



Move on with that bs.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Amor. ♥:" How is it getting old? I dont want to be talking and building a friendship with fake people.... Have ... [snip!] ... from anyone on BG, but a lot of us build friendships, and we deserve to know who is real and who isn't. Move on with that bs."


You generally give people the benefit of the doubt. Usually, red flags will come up and start warning you... but we can't "screen" every new member or harrass new people that come on this site. That's paranoia, and honestly, if I was a new member, it would freak me out.



It's nothing like catfish... lol. Those people have potentially life altering situations. This is a parenting site...... not a huge deal, IMO.

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Amor. ♥:" How is it getting old? I dont want to be talking and building a friendship with fake people.... Have ... [snip!] ... from anyone on BG, but a lot of us build friendships, and we deserve to know who is real and who isn't. Move on with that bs."


Targeting new members all the time trying to figure out if they are legit or not seems to have become a constant obsession. So yes it's getting old.




Also, shut the hell up. :wink:

.Solange. 1 child; Montreal, 5566 posts
6th Feb '13

Ugh OP it's too damn early for this, I haven't even had my coffee yet. Go to school

.Solange. 1 child; Montreal, 5566 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" You generally give people the benefit of the doubt. Usually, red flags will come up and start warning ... [snip!] ... catfish... lol. Those people have potentially life altering situations. This is a parenting site...... not a huge deal, IMO."


thank. you.



Jennocide. 2 kids; Louisiana 602 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting ღ Diana ღ:" Targeting new members all the time trying to figure out if they are legit or not seems to have become a constant obsession. So yes it's getting old. Also, shut the hell up. :wink:"



Why the f**k would I "shut the hell up?"
LMAO, Broad have a f**king seat! You're whinning and bitching about something that NEEDS to be done. People online are crazy. I've seen "women" steal pics, kill off their babies (because you can only lie about a child for so long), steal peoples life stories, kids pics, etc.... f**k a new member getting "scared off" !!!! If they are REAL then they shouldn't have anything to be scared of. Common f**king sense. You can't give people online the benefit of the doubt anymore. That is how you end up falling for the fakes bullshit. Call it being paranoid, I call it being cautious.

Jennocide. 2 kids; Louisiana 602 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" You generally give people the benefit of the doubt. Usually, red flags will come up and start warning ... [snip!] ... catfish... lol. Those people have potentially life altering situations. This is a parenting site...... not a huge deal, IMO."



It's still a common link betweenthe two. Yes this is a parenting site, but we areall still humans and we create bonds with people. It doesn't have to be a life altering situation to affect you if you find out someone you're talking to has faked everything. I'd still be hurt. So I'd rather know before hand than be blindsided later on. And OP even said she had a reasonable reason to question the photo because she'd seen it before.




Thanks for being an adult in this conversation though, seems some hags don't know how to do that here . :) xx

Take me as I am 18 kids; Wyoming 1669 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Amor. ♥:" Why the f**k would I "shut the hell up?" LMAO, Broad have a f**king seat! You're whinning and bitching ... [snip!] ... of the doubt anymore. That is how you end up falling for the fakes bullshit. Call it being paranoid, I call it being cautious."


Well don't you think you are a tuff guy!! lol you are new so maybe you are just as fake.