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now I feel fat Secret Service Texas 742 posts
4th Feb '13

I just expressed to SO how Im always bored and lonley. It seems all my friends have disappeared and I dont want to always bother him. He told me that I should workout and just get in my zone. Maybe I'm just taking it the wrong way. I feel like I should take a hint or something. I told him maybe I should make a goal to lose 50lbs by summer. He said I should do it.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
4th Feb '13

Nothing wrong with trying to get in better health. As long as he is being positive and trying to support you, I would be happy about it.

HungryHippo 2 kids; Missouri 12139 posts
4th Feb '13

Maybe he just meant get out of the house and do something?
I loved going to the gym and there's nothing wrong with staying fit

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Salad Fingers:" Nothing wrong with trying to get in better health. As long as he is being positive and trying to support you, I would be happy about it. "


I know its just it made me feel more self conscience than I already am

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
4th Feb '13

I think it was just a suggestion for something to do.
Make a small goal first. 10-15lbs at a time. Reaching a goal will make you feel good and encourage yourself to continue.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59196 posts
status 4th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" I just expressed to SO how Im always bored and lonley. It seems all my friends have disappeared and I ... [snip!] ... like I should take a hint or something. I told him maybe I should make a goal to lose 50lbs by summer. He said I should do it."


I feel bad for guys because how do you get your SO to lose weight without looking like a total dick? I mean maybe he didn't mean that, but if he did is that so wrong?

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting *PeanutButter*:" Maybe he just meant get out of the house and do something? I loved going to the gym and there's nothing wrong with staying fit"


I just recently (well 5 months ago lol) stopped going to the gym. I do miss it but i need a job again to afford it.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" I know its just it made me feel more self conscience than I already am"


Well you shouldn't feel self-conscious. I'm sure he loves you no matter how you are but just trying to lightly encourage you to take that step toward bettering your health.

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" I think it was just a suggestion for something to do. Make a small goal first. 10-15lbs at a time. Reaching a goal will make you feel good and encourage yourself to continue."


im in my 140's I would love to lose at leat 15

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" im in my 140's I would love to lose at leat 15"


Why would you want to lose 50 pounds then? That's excessive.

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" I feel bad for guys because how do you get your SO to lose weight without looking like a total dick? I mean maybe he didn't mean that, but if he did is that so wrong? "


no you got a point

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Salad Fingers:" Why would you want to lose 50 pounds then? That's excessive. "


I was being sarcastic with him. I dint expect him to agree =/

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59196 posts
status 4th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" no you got a point"


After I had my daughter Harry was like "Wanna do sit ups with me?" And I was like "Sure! I need to get in shape anyway." After about 3 minutes he's like "Here I'll hold your feet and you do them"



It didn't take me long to realize I was doing sit ups all by myself and he was watching family guy.



Lmao

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 59196 posts
status 4th Feb '13
Quoting Secret Service:" I was being sarcastic with him. I dint expect him to agree =/"


Omg lol, don't feel bad. Guys have NO concept of how much a pound is.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Amαndα ♕:" After I had my daughter Harry was like "Wanna do sit ups with me?" And I was like "Sure! I need to get ... [snip!] ... and you do them" It didn't take me long to realize I was doing sit ups all by myself and he was watching family guy. Lmao"


That's so funny.



My husband and I joke with each other about stuff like that and we tend to be really open. Since I got pregnant my belly has been poking out more and more even though I'm only 13 weeks but he light-heatedly calls me "Mother of the potbelly" in our native language. I joke on him cuz he's very skinny and try to get him eat peanut butter to put on weight lol.