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is it possible? Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 640 posts
4th Feb '13

i am a single mama! yes i love being around my child all day every day(: i love it so much and wouldn't trade it for the world! being a mommy is the best thing in the world. i just get so sad sometimes thinking why my baby daddy doesn't won't anything to do with this precious son? he has put me so much bs!
is it possible to ever find someone for me? :/ honestly im just ready to settle down and be with somone who will make me happy, and make my son happy and just be there for him! a good father figure for him that will just do all the man stuff with him and take him fishing and hunting and everything when he gets older(: it doesn't have to be a day from now, or even a year from now. i just feel hopeless sometimes that i will actually never find a good man for my son. i feel like especially boys, it's important for them to have that male structure around them.
did you ever find a good caring man to love your child? share your story please(: just gives me hope sometimes!

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
4th Feb '13

Obviously it's possible. But it never happens when you think it will. Be someone worth settling down for. Know who you are, and I mean really get to know yourself.

Canduice Due March 7 (boy); Tacoma, Washington 25 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" i am a single mama! yes i love being around my child all day every day(: i love it so much and wouldn't ... [snip!] ... around them. did you ever find a good caring man to love your child? share your story please(: just gives me hope sometimes!"


Well Im 35 weeks pregnant and I guess I just got lucky because me and my babydaddy is doing better than ever and were both super excited for our son. he has stood by me this whole pregnancy and even way before. Don't worry you'll find the right man. It's when you quit looking for that right man is when you'll find him.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10582 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" i am a single mama! yes i love being around my child all day every day(: i love it so much and wouldn't ... [snip!] ... around them. did you ever find a good caring man to love your child? share your story please(: just gives me hope sometimes!"


When I had DS, the guy I was with then, his biological father, started being mean and abusive to me. Well, after I had him, he started getting a bit worse. (By abusive, I mean mentally not physically) well, eventually he stopped coming around. (Hasn't seen DS since he was two.) Well, shortly after dating quite a few of the wrong guys, and almost trying to settle down with them, I met DH, who stole me from someone who was absolutely no good for me. And now, two years later, we've been together two years on the 23, and married for one the 25. :-) and he treats my son just like he's his own. And now we are expecting a "baby sister" as my son says lol. (Idk the sex of the baby yet...) you'll find someone someday. Don't give up, sweetie. ♥

XxChowderW/MayoOnTheSidex Due July 8 (girl); 1 child; Delaware 1469 posts
4th Feb '13

yes it's very important to have a father figure in your sons life. my brother and i didn't have a dad growing up and even tho he won't admit it my brother is very hurt and hates our dad

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10582 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Obviously it's possible. But it never happens when you think it will. Be someone worth settling down for. Know who you are, and I mean really get to know yourself. "


:!:
Exactly

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 640 posts
4th Feb '13

thanks yall(: well i know it is possible, i just feel like that time will never come. but like yall said, just stop looking and it will happen(: i'v had so many guys who are like ill be his father figure and all that, but i just don't wanna jump into that! i want to make sure it's deff the right guy who will stay there for me and my son. i do NOT won't to bring a bunch of different guys into his life! i have been single ever since he was born, and i plan to keep it that way till i find a good man(:

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10582 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting Mama BooBoo(::" thanks yall(: well i know it is possible, i just feel like that time will never come. but like yall said, ... [snip!] ... guys into his life! i have been single ever since he was born, and i plan to keep it that way till i find a good man(:"

That is a good idea. Good luck, hon!:-)

Mama BooBoo(: 1 child; South Carolina 640 posts
4th Feb '13
Quoting *~AngelEyes~*:" That is a good idea. Good luck, hon!:-)"

thank you!(: