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How to comfort DH about our MC. What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
4th Feb '13

He finally came out about how he actually feels. He said he is scared to actually get pregnant again because he is scared I will have another MC and that it will be worse than last time. He said he is scared because of how depressed I was *I used to cut and I was suicidal on a daily basis* but that was before my LO. I mean I got low after my MC but never that low. Never low enough that I would leave behind DH and LO. Does anyone know how I can reassure him about this? I mean I know there is no way to completely reassure him because the risk of MC will always be there so I am not really sure how to go about it. Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!

AbbieChrysler3312 32 kids; Ohio 1049 posts
5th Feb '13
Quoting Let the rain fall:" He finally came out about how he actually feels. He said he is scared to actually get pregnant again ... [snip!] ... risk of MC will always be there so I am not really sure how to go about it. Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!"


I would just talk to him and tell him that you understand where he is coming from but that would never happen basically tell him what you posted about you would never leave him and your children behind.