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    • He cleans up after himself -- Votes: 26
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UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
Feb 6th '13
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justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
Feb 6th '13

He cleans up after himself. I am not home to take car of him, I am home to take care of our kids. I am not the cook, the maid, etc. I do more of that stuff than he does, but I don't & won't do all of it & I won't take care of him like that. He is a grown ass man who is perfectly capable of figuring out where the waste basket, dishwasher & washing machine are located. ;)



I have to laugh - so many men complain their wives aren't into sex anymore. I always wonder how many of those men treat their wife like she's their mom & expect her to cater to him that way. I can promise you - if you feel like his mom, eventually you will see it impact your attraction to him as well. So many women seem to think something is wrong with them when they don't want to have sex, I think a good chunk of it is that they don't want to get it on with someone who feel more like a son than a partner.

Mummy-2-3-Monsters 3 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 15734 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" He cleans up after himself. I am not home to take car of him, I am home to take care of our kids. I am ... [snip!] ... have sex, I think a good chunk of it is that they don't want to get it on with someone who feel more like a son than a partner."</blockquote>




I must be one of the odd ones out then. I have no problem cleaning up his messes and I'm very much attracted to him an want sex on a daily basis.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
Feb 6th '13

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justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" He cleans up after himself. I am not home ... [snip!] ... odd ones out then. I have no problem cleaning up his messes and I'm very much attracted to him an want sex on a daily basis."

Then you don't see him as acting like a child I would presume.



And I don't have any problem either - he already does it. I don't have to say a thing. Then again, we both worked & were childless for ages, so we already established this crap eons ago & when we decided I would stay home, we both knew that stuff wasn't going to change.

Ryloonjimama Australia 18873 posts
Feb 6th '13

It really depends, but he tries to help, for the most part & that's all I really want. I hate when he goes through little stages of just not even bothering to do anything though & I let him know.

Ryloonjimama Australia 18873 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" He cleans up after himself. I am not home to take car of him, I am home to take care of our kids. I am ... [snip!] ... have sex, I think a good chunk of it is that they don't want to get it on with someone who feel more like a son than a partner."</blockquote>




:!: We for sure have had these issues.



I don't mind taking on the most of it, because I'm here a lot more but I am definitely not the maid and he knows that he has equal responsibility to help out more where necessary.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
Feb 6th '13

Yes he does. I can't put up with someone who doesn't. He didn't at the beginning and I was about to leave him because of it.

delightfully mad Slut, Sweden 146 posts
Feb 6th '13

He cleans up after himself. Jesus, I have enough children as is, I dont need to be married to a child.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
Feb 6th '13
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Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber :]:</b>" I loled. I can just imagine Noah finding a sock and hiding it somewhere. ^.^ ugh. I'm not so sure how ... [snip!] ... gets here. I'm just not the person to be okay with being a maid to someone who's fully capable of cleaning up after himself."</blockquote>




:(....You will know after staying home the first months....I might have to pick up a part time job soon..we are so broke....On one hand I'm excited on the other I am scared to leave him so much right now. He is sooo active and gutsy :( its scary.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
Feb 6th '13
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justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amber :]:</b>" I loled. I can just imagine Noah finding a sock ... [snip!] ... one hand I'm excited on the other I am scared to leave him so much right now. He is sooo active and gutsy :( its scary."

I think "active & gutsy" is the perfect way to describe that age. LOL

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber :]:</b>" That sucks. :( If it makes you feel any better, I don't see this whole me getting to be a SAHM thing ... [snip!] ... back to work. I'm already terrified of the thought of leaving her with anybody Do you think you're just going to go back to PP?"</blockquote>



Aw :(...Do you think it would be for money or man child reasons heh...I WISH I could go back to pp...but idk if it will be worth the gas money...its a 25-30 min drive...BUT anywhere else I would probably make like 3 dollars less an hour sooo...would it be worth it?

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" I think "active & gutsy" is the perfect way to describe that age. LOL"</blockquote>




Yess....he freaks me out with how smart he is...he will open droors to climb on them...use drumsticks to knock what he wants down 0_0...he is almost 15 months