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Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
8th Feb '13
Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Maybe with this specific example, but I'm sure ... [snip!] ... playing video games "all day". Since when does a man playing on his free day or on his time off, spare time make it "all day"?"

I feel like it becomes a problem when the man only spends his free time and days off playing video games rather than spending time with his family.

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
8th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Maybe with this specific example, but I'm sure by the way she explained this that he is on that system ... [snip!] ... after his kid is home. It's possible it will but unlikely based on what I've seen with people so obsessed with playing games."</blockquote>



Well it couldn't have bothered her this much before since in August she posted about buying him 6 video games all at once with plans to get him more plus a GameStop or PS gift card. And in that very post she talks as if it wasn't the first time. Nothing wrong with that of course, but If his gaming habit was as bad as you are insinuating it may be, and that was what angered her so badly, I don't think she would contribute to her hatred THAT MUCH. I am sure that something happened between then and now that poses as an underlying issue. Sometimes when problems start happening in relationships, the things that you used to be ok with start pissing you off. And I'm just assuming of course, since I don't know OP personally, that this may be the case.



Now as for OP there is nothing wrong with this. It's just a matter of recognizing the issues and sorting them out together as a couple. Her SO does care about them and she said that herself, so I definitely think there is hope. And as I have said before I really DO hope that things work out between them.

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
8th Feb '13
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Maybe with this specific example, but I'm sure ... [snip!] ... herself, so I definitely think there is hope. And as I have said before I really DO hope that things work out between them."


I hope so as well. Maybe its just bothering her more now because the hospital thing would probably hurt my feelings as well. Once SO started even paying a little attention to LO, his gaming didn't bother me nearly as bad. Hopefully its the same for her and things get better instead of worse.

Mrs. Sherwood TTC since Jun 2013; 16 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3391 posts
8th Feb '13
Quoting Rabbit
user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
8th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night. :)"</blockquote>




Lol here we go!!

Mrs. Sherwood TTC since Jun 2013; 16 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3391 posts
8th Feb '13
Quoting Kaibutsu:" Yeah OP I would be pissed too...I know how bad it hurts to have me and my child ignored for the sake ... [snip!] ... were flipped and a mother on here were so obsessed with video gaming and had to have it 24/7...she would get ripped a new one."


Thank you! People are saying that "no one is being ignored"...well, clearly OP feels neglected or she wouldn't have posted the topic to begin with. He wasn't there for their child's birth, I doubt he's being an attentive husband/father while their child is in the NICU. And what exactly is OP doing while her SO is playing video games? Sitting there and watching him? He should be there FOR HER. Clearly she's struggling with this and he's putting his PS3 before her needs.

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
8th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night. :)"</blockquote>




Guess what. Myself and our children are my husband's first priority!! You lose. Oh ya and we play games too. Currently playing resident evil 6. Go pack for Paris. I'm sure Arizona is looking forward to the break from you.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
9th Feb '13

Holy christ! I hope the OP unsuscribed to this bs thread.



If you are still reading through this OP I hope your baby is doing better! <33

Loving my Anna-bug 33 kids; California 54 posts
9th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious ... [snip!] ... games too. Currently playing resident evil 6. Go pack for Paris. I'm sure Arizona is looking forward to the break from you."</blockquote>




Are you kidding? You are such a drama seeker. Did you even bother to read my last post, or was it to much of an 'essay' for you to follow along. By the way, I'm super offended about your statement that 'Arizona needs a break from me'. I mean seriously? I'm done arguing with you. OP deserves better. OP - I am so sorry for what you're going through and I really hope things get better. You deserve a man who is always there for you and your son. If your SO isn't willing to change - just know that there are men out there who will love and care for you and your son the way a real man should. Have a great weekend OP :)

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
9th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ******j*******:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... that there are men out there who will love and care for you and your son the way a real man should. Have a great weekend OP :)"</blockquote>




Making multiple accounts now are we??

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
9th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ******j*******:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... that there are men out there who will love and care for you and your son the way a real man should. Have a great weekend OP :)"</blockquote>




Assuming you are posting as Mrs. Sherwood.... Considering you are answering what I wrote to her AS HER on this account. Looks like your husband isn't as perfect as you led on. Looking at this account's threads. Oh boy. The truth loves to come out in miraculous ways!!

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
9th Feb '13
Quoting Kaibutsu:" I feel like it becomes a problem when the man only spends his free time and days off playing video games rather than spending time with his family."


I guess we all see it differently but shit, my husband works f**king hard to bring in the money he does to out home. We don't struggle, we have whatever we want, whatever we need, even whatever we don't want and whatever we don't need. If my husband feels like he wants to spend on of his days off in front of the Playstation why shouldn't he be able. Plus, I'd rather him be there where I know where he is at and what he is doing.Rather than having him, off God knows where with God knows who doing God knows what.



I don't need my husband to be by myside 24/7 to know that he loves me. OP is over exaggerating. At the same time kind of being a hypocrit. I'm sure she would mind if the tables were reversed and her BD was the one throwing a fit because (CLEARLY) she was in BG.

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
9th Feb '13

Lmao still can't get over this irony.



Mrs. Sherwood and her perfect marriage!!



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And her fake account posting to me in case she deletes that one as well:
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Normally I am NOT this mean. I am such a nice person. But I am sorry mrs. Sherwood. Karma is apparently as much of a b***h as you have been to me.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
9th Feb '13
Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night. :)"


Damn, this shit is too long to read. Not to mention it starts with non~sense. The "random" people were mostly people that were here before you decided to come. Someone asked you a question about something that you commented. You went crazy and started stating that because her views were different than yours her relationship priorities were fucked up.



That was one hell of a c**t move.

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
9th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Damn, this shit is too long to read. Not to mention it starts with non~sense. The "random" people were ... [snip!] ... because her views were different than yours her relationship priorities were fucked up. That was one hell of a c**t move. "</blockquote>




Truth about her perfect marriage is all out now anyways lol. She did it to herself.