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??? Jane Lynn Due December 24 (girl); 1 child; Texas 299 posts
6th Feb '13

alright got something i wanna ask someone close to me just found out her man been lieing to her and maybe even cheating on her but he doesnt know she knows anything.. i say wait till she get more info then nail him.. but she on the other hand isnt to sure.. so i just wanted peoples input what do ya'll think she should do..

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
6th Feb '13

If she thinks he's cheating she should ask him about it & stop making it everyone else's business. If he hasn't been cheating, she just made him look bad with her gossip.

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
6th Feb '13

She should talk to him.

♥ The Prodigy Due March 3 (boy); 33 kids; Perth, Australia 5617 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" If she thinks he's cheating she should ask him about it & stop making it everyone else's business. If he hasn't been cheating, she just made him look bad with her gossip."

:!::!:

Jane Lynn Due December 24 (girl); 1 child; Texas 299 posts
6th Feb '13

'he only one she has said anything to.. she read some message he wrote this girl but i'll tell her to just talk to him

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" If she thinks he's cheating she should ask him about it & stop making it everyone else's business. If he hasn't been cheating, she just made him look bad with her gossip."



:roll: since when is telling one person, telling everybody?

OP, I think if she feels she needs to confront him, then she should.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" :roll: since when is telling one person, telling everybody? OP, I think if she feels she needs to confront him, then she should."</blockquote>




Look who she told. The entire Internet knows. I doubt were the only mass group she told.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" :roll: since when is telling ... [snip!] ... she should."</blockquote> Look who she told. The entire Internet knows. I doubt were the only mass group she told."


Yes! Because we all know who the hell he is. Now this complete stranger's imagine will be ruined forever in my eyes!! :roll:



I'm sure as soon as you moved on to the next thread you had already forgotten she was even talking about who ever he is. You're the reason why a lot of women do not feel they can ask for advice on situations without getting jumped on.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
7th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Yes! Because we all know who the hell he is. Now this complete stranger's imagine will be ruined forever ... [snip!] ... ever he is. You're the reason why a lot of women do not feel they can ask for advice on situations without getting jumped on."</blockquote>




Oh yeah? She got jumped on because I said her friend shouldn't be getting strangers/other people into her relationship problems?

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
7th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" If she thinks he's cheating she should ask him about it & stop making it everyone else's business. If he hasn't been cheating, she just made him look bad with her gossip."

I do agree with this. No offense to the OP,but it's none of her business to ask for advice on her "friends" relationship. Her friend needs handle her shit on her own.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
7th Feb '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Yes! Because we all know who ... [snip!] ... yeah? She got jumped on because I said her friend shouldn't be getting strangers/other people into her relationship problems?"


How is that getting strangers into their relationship? You don't kno the couple.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
7th Feb '13
Quoting κατι:" I do agree with this. No offense to the OP,but it's none of her business to ask for advice on her "friends" relationship. Her friend needs handle her shit on her own."


She's not asking you to give the friend advice. She's asking if the advice she gave him was good or that if there was a better way she could advice her friend to handle the situation.



I don't see how it's none of her business. If the friend is telling her what's going on. It's obviously her business. She's probably just asking so she can give the best advice she can to her friend.



There's nothing wrong with that.

Jane Lynn Due December 24 (girl); 1 child; Texas 299 posts
21st Feb '13
Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" She's not asking you to give the friend advice. She's asking if the advice she gave him was good or ... [snip!] ... business. She's probably just asking so she can give the best advice she can to her friend. There's nothing wrong with that. "


and thats what i was doing.. thank you and sorry i never wrote back sooner i dont ever get on here b/c there is so much drama