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    • i spank. -- Votes: 16
    • i don't spank. -- Votes: 20
    • i do sometimes. -- Votes: 32
Minion Due September 30; 2 kids; Toccoa, GA, United States 19972 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" The law would disagree with you on that, if I were to spank my husband for doing something that is bothering me."</blockquote>




DFCS here says that spanking is fine as long as it is open hand on the butt only.

A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" The law would disagree with you on that, if I were to spank my husband for doing something that is bothering me."</blockquote>




That's why I don't understand why it's okay to spank your kids.



If you strike another adult, its assault.



But striking a helpless child less than half your size is alright and totally legal. As long as you felt they did something that warranted them being hit.



It's crazy.

The Time Police TTC since Apr 2014; 1 angel baby; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33368 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting A is Me:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" The law would disagree with you on that, ... [snip!] ... your size is alright and totally legal. As long as you felt they did something that warranted them being hit. It's crazy."


Want to know what tickles me pink? Spanking a kid for hitting.

Captain K'nuckles ⚓ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Elizabeth, WV, United States 4970 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" The law would disagree with you on that, if I were to spank my husband for doing something that is bothering me."</blockquote>



I spank SO, he spanks me; all in good fun. :P

A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" Want to know what tickles me pink? Spanking a kid for hitting."</blockquote>




I know. And the majority of parents who do it don't even see the irony.

The Time Police TTC since Apr 2014; 1 angel baby; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33368 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Venus p***s Trap.
Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
6th Feb '13

I have never, ever heard of an assault case where someone smacked another adult on the ass without force or leaving a mark. It's highly unlikely and IMO, ridiculous to call that "assault."

delightfully mad Slut, Sweden 146 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I have never, ever heard of an assault case where someone smacked another adult on the ass without force or leaving a mark. It's highly unlikely and IMO, ridiculous to call that "assault." "</blockquote>



Good to know. Ill tell my dh that he can go ahead and hit me as long as he does itin a way that doesnt leave any evidence.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Quark:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I have never, ever heard of an assault ... [snip!] ... Good to know. Ill tell my dh that he can go ahead and hit me as long as he does itin a way that doesnt leave any evidence."


So you would call the police on him if he spanked your ass?

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Supafly★:" So you would call the police on him if he spanked your ass? "


I am sure she is talking about if he did it out of anger to punish etc....and not out of husband and wife playfulness.

I agree if I was with a guy and I spilled my drink and he hauled of and spanked me, ya I would press charges, that is abuse in my eyes.

I am not against spanking tho, its just not for us.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" I am sure she is talking about if he did it out of anger to punish etc....and not out of husband and ... [snip!] ... of and spanked me, ya I would press charges, that is abuse in my eyes. I am not against spanking tho, its just not for us."


I mean, it's tough to say because an adult doesn't have to discipline another adult KWIM?



In that situation her spouse would be using physical force to take out his anger on her. That is never okay, and that's not how spanking should be done.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Supafly★:" I mean, it's tough to say because an adult doesn't have to discipline another adult KWIM? In that ... [snip!] ... would be using physical force to take out his anger on her. That is never okay, and that's not how spanking should be done. "



Yes I agree. 100%
But I think she protrays spanking altogether as in trhat situation. A lot of ppl do. I dont spank us, but dont care if others do, and if I see someone spank in an abusive way I will tell them that, they are doing it wrong.

I know someone who spanked out of anger and frustration all the time, its not right in that sort of way.

The Time Police TTC since Apr 2014; 1 angel baby; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33368 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Supafly★:" So you would call the police on him if he spanked your ass? "


If my husband ever laid a hand on me to "punish" me, I sure as hell would.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Yes I agree. 100% But I think she protrays spanking altogether as in trhat situation. A lot of ... [snip!] ... are doing it wrong. I know someone who spanked out of anger and frustration all the time, its not right in that sort of way."


Any form of anger at your kids is harmful. I'm sure we're all guilty of it occasionally, maybe not with spanking but with yelling, ect. but to do it on a regular basis is not okay.



I can understand why it's such a hot topic but it really should be one of those "mind your own" type deals. If you're against spanking, don't do it, period. Don't call people child-abusers because you don't agree with their choice of discipline. [Not talking about you or anyone in this thread - just in general lol].

Captain K'nuckles ⚓ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Elizabeth, WV, United States 4970 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I have never, ever heard of an assault case where someone smacked another adult on the ass without force or leaving a mark. It's highly unlikely and IMO, ridiculous to call that "assault." "</blockquote>




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