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Cast Your Vote:

    • i spank. -- Votes: 16
    • i don't spank. -- Votes: 20
    • i do sometimes. -- Votes: 32
Optimusfine 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6243 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" The law would disagree with you on that, if I were to spank my husband for doing something that is bothering me."</blockquote>



I spank SO, he spanks me; all in good fun. :P

A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" Want to know what tickles me pink? Spanking a kid for hitting."</blockquote>




I know. And the majority of parents who do it don't even see the irony.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14303 posts
6th Feb '13

I have never, ever heard of an assault case where someone smacked another adult on the ass without force or leaving a mark. It's highly unlikely and IMO, ridiculous to call that "assault."

delightfully mad Slut, Sweden 146 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I have never, ever heard of an assault case where someone smacked another adult on the ass without force or leaving a mark. It's highly unlikely and IMO, ridiculous to call that "assault." "</blockquote>



Good to know. Ill tell my dh that he can go ahead and hit me as long as he does itin a way that doesnt leave any evidence.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14303 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Quark:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I have never, ever heard of an assault ... [snip!] ... Good to know. Ill tell my dh that he can go ahead and hit me as long as he does itin a way that doesnt leave any evidence."


So you would call the police on him if he spanked your ass?

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Supafly★:" So you would call the police on him if he spanked your ass? "


I am sure she is talking about if he did it out of anger to punish etc....and not out of husband and wife playfulness.

I agree if I was with a guy and I spilled my drink and he hauled of and spanked me, ya I would press charges, that is abuse in my eyes.

I am not against spanking tho, its just not for us.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14303 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" I am sure she is talking about if he did it out of anger to punish etc....and not out of husband and ... [snip!] ... of and spanked me, ya I would press charges, that is abuse in my eyes. I am not against spanking tho, its just not for us."


I mean, it's tough to say because an adult doesn't have to discipline another adult KWIM?



In that situation her spouse would be using physical force to take out his anger on her. That is never okay, and that's not how spanking should be done.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Supafly★:" I mean, it's tough to say because an adult doesn't have to discipline another adult KWIM? In that ... [snip!] ... would be using physical force to take out his anger on her. That is never okay, and that's not how spanking should be done. "



Yes I agree. 100%
But I think she protrays spanking altogether as in trhat situation. A lot of ppl do. I dont spank us, but dont care if others do, and if I see someone spank in an abusive way I will tell them that, they are doing it wrong.

I know someone who spanked out of anger and frustration all the time, its not right in that sort of way.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14303 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Yes I agree. 100% But I think she protrays spanking altogether as in trhat situation. A lot of ... [snip!] ... are doing it wrong. I know someone who spanked out of anger and frustration all the time, its not right in that sort of way."


Any form of anger at your kids is harmful. I'm sure we're all guilty of it occasionally, maybe not with spanking but with yelling, ect. but to do it on a regular basis is not okay.



I can understand why it's such a hot topic but it really should be one of those "mind your own" type deals. If you're against spanking, don't do it, period. Don't call people child-abusers because you don't agree with their choice of discipline. [Not talking about you or anyone in this thread - just in general lol].

Optimusfine 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6243 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" I have never, ever heard of an assault case where someone smacked another adult on the ass without force or leaving a mark. It's highly unlikely and IMO, ridiculous to call that "assault." "</blockquote>




:!: :!:

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14303 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:" You're aware that men used to be able to spank women as punishment, right? And people spoke out against ... [snip!] ... it that it is now illegal... right? You don't need to be shown a case based on it, because it is written in our history."


Women don't need to be punished so yeah, that makes sense. Like I said a few posts back when a guy hits a girl [or vice versa] it's out of ANGER not punishment. Putting your hands on anyone out of anger is wrong.



But if a guy spanks a girl's ass for any reason and she calls the police, it is very unlikely to turn into an assault case if he left no marks, used no force, and there was no other violence happening.

Optimusfine 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6243 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Women don't need to be punished so yeah, that makes sense. Like I said a few posts back when a guy ... [snip!] ... is very unlikely to turn into an assault case if he left no marks, used no force, and there was no other violence happening. "</blockquote>




I think if someone called the police on their husband for smacking their ass, they would get laughed at.. IMAO

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14303 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Venus p***s Trap.
delightfully mad Slut, Sweden 146 posts
7th Feb '13
Quoting Supafly★:" So you would call the police on him if he spanked your ass? "

Against my consent and to control me? Hell to the yes. He definitely wouldn't be coming near me again, and if it took police involvement, so be it. Why the hell would I allow someone to strike me? If he did that he'd be out the door. Period. I do not stand for anyone striking me and I will not teach my kids that that behavior is normal or something they should accept from anyone, much less a family member.

delightfully mad Slut, Sweden 146 posts
7th Feb '13

I don't give a f**k what the police think. NO ONE strikes me, and there will be hell to pay if they do. If I have to go through every channel of the law there is, I will do it to keep that person away from me.



The person who allows their spouse to "punish" them, much less with striking, is pathetic.