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user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Levis Mommy:" They are rude and intrusive, I think that's where a lot of my problem sits with them. It's how they go about doing things. They're very inconsiderate. "

Not offering to pay rent for a house you don't own is also rude and inconsiderate.

Levis Mommy Due December 25 (boy); 1 child; plattsburgh, NY, United States 166 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Blythe.:" right. Who is paying the bills if you guys don't pay for anything?"


He pays all the bills (heat, utilities all that jazz), but there is no rent, the house is paid off (from his gram) and they (aunts/mom) never set up a rent or anything like that after she passed.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:" There is this nifty new invention called the stove. It's fantastic for heating food."


I need to get one of these.



The smoke my hearth fire makes is really damaging my couch.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16054 posts
6th Feb '13

Considering he pays the bills and they didn't take the time to set up a lease agreement with him, I agree they are being inconsiderate. And do you own the microwave? If so I would be pissed if they just walked in and took it. However, they do own the place so unfortunately can come and go as they please. Therefore, you just have to deal with it for a while.

Levis Mommy Due December 25 (boy); 1 child; plattsburgh, NY, United States 166 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Blythe.:" right. Who is paying the bills if you guys don't pay for anything?"


we pay all the bills, just no rent.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:" Yeah, it was making my walls black. This heats food at amazing temperatures... all without fire. It's magic, I tell ya."


The gods are crazy.

Levis Mommy Due December 25 (boy); 1 child; plattsburgh, NY, United States 166 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Considering he pays the bills and they didn't take the time to set up a lease agreement with him, I agree ... [snip!] ... they do own the place so unfortunately can come and go as they please. Therefore, you just have to deal with it for a while."


The microwave was his, ad the whole situation is just really frustrating and stressful, I can't wait for it to be gone and done with.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16054 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Levis Mommy:" The microwave was his, ad the whole situation is just really frustrating and stressful, I can't wait for it to be gone and done with. "


Why did they take it??



And has the paper work and stuff started for him to buy the house?

Levis Mommy Due December 25 (boy); 1 child; plattsburgh, NY, United States 166 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Why did they take it?? And has the paper work and stuff started for him to buy the house?"


They did it just to be malicious, out of spite. The paper work hasn't been started yet, but we've got a paper that stated that the women were selling it to him for a specific price and he went to the bank about it to get that ball rolling. It makes it even harder because the women are all at least 50 and they act younger than me.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" They did it just to be malicious, out of spite. The paper work hasn't been started yet, but we've got ... [snip!] ... about it to get that ball rolling. It makes it even harder because the women are all at least 50 and they act younger than me."</blockquote>




I think you need to quit shit talking the women who let you live there rent free. Once your SO actually buys the house THEN you can talk as much crap as you want. Yes it crappy that they come in and out of the house that THEY own and yes they shouldn't have taken your microwave but there is nothing you can do about it. Personally if my son was dating(and knocked up) a little 19 year old when he was in his late 20s I would not be happy either.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16054 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" They did it just to be malicious, out of ... [snip!] ... Personally if my son was dating(and knocked up) a little 19 year old when he was in his late 20s I would not be happy either."


Nothing wrong with her venting about it. At least she isn't saying it to them.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" Nothing wrong with her venting about it. At least she isn't saying it to them. "</blockquote>




She's trying to get her SO to say something to them.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16054 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" Nothing wrong with her venting about it. ... [snip!] ... about it. At least she isn't saying it to them. "</blockquote> She's trying to get her SO to say something to them."


How bad would it be for him to ask them to stop being so rude? A DECENT human being wouldn't act like that whether it was their house or not. They made the choice to not set up a lease agreement and to not kick them out..so obviously they don't care they are there. So what is the point in acting like they do?

Levis Mommy Due December 25 (boy); 1 child; plattsburgh, NY, United States 166 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" They did it just to be malicious, out of ... [snip!] ... Personally if my son was dating(and knocked up) a little 19 year old when he was in his late 20s I would not be happy either."


We both have children from separate partners. His son is 4 and mine is 9mos old. He's a great man with a big heart who's taking in another mans child with one of his own. He's one hell of a worker, too. So, for them to treat them as poorly as they do is just unacceptable and if you don't see it that way, that's okay. It's really not your place to judge us, our relationship and our situation. This forum is meant to be a place where anybody can talk about anything and get helpful advice! Maybe I am wrong for being the way I am, but they're no better. I am young, and I don't know how to handle a situation such as this, that's why I came here, for help, not to be belittled and mocked.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
6th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" We both have children from separate partners. His son is 4 and mine is 9mos old. He's a great man with ... [snip!] ... and I don't know how to handle a situation such as this, that's why I came here, for help, not to be belittled and mocked. "</blockquote>




I was giving you my personal opinion. Welcome to the Internet where anyone and everyone can call it how they see it.