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Levi and Finns Mommy 2 kids; plattsburgh, NY, United States 219 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... even live there apparently(look at her previous post) and her SO isn't saying anything to them so apparently he doesn't care."


You're just an ignorant woman who doesn't know what she's talking about. Sometimes it's just better to quit while you're ahead. I think you've reached that point.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" You're just an ignorant woman who doesn't know what she's talking about. Sometimes it's just better to quit while you're ahead. I think you've reached that point."</blockquote>



Oh really now? Says the little girl who clearly doesn't know a damn thing about the laws regarding stuff like this.

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... even live there apparently(look at her previous post) and her SO isn't saying anything to them so apparently he doesn't care."</blockquote>



How is that my logic? You are a renter with a rental agreement, not the same situation. Derp.

Levi and Finns Mommy 2 kids; plattsburgh, NY, United States 219 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:" I'm going to catch up on all the pages so I might have more input but here...yes the landlords can come ... [snip!] ... it to them ALL...that they have the right to do as they please until its transferred out of their names. I'm catching up now..."


That's the thing, there are no landlords. There is nothing but a WILL saying he's allowed to live there rent free (only having to care for the bills) until the home is sold buy his aunts/mom. It's not his aunts/moms to live in or keep, it's to be sold. And he's in the process of buying the home now. It's a difficult situation to explain in a way that wouldn't take all day.

LevinOnJetPlaneDntKnoWenI Pennsylvania 1590 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Levis Mommy:" You're just an ignorant woman who doesn't know what she's talking about. Sometimes it's just better to quit while you're ahead. I think you've reached that point."


Just ignore her. But if hes allowed to live there because its in the will then I'd have him contact a lawyer about how to go about drawing up papers to either keep them out or at least make them give him notice before they enter the property.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little ... [snip!] ... care."</blockquote> How is that my logic? You are a renter with a rental agreement, not the same situation. Derp."</blockquote>



He can live there rent free I acknowledged that. At the beginning of the post OP made it sound like she lives there. She is not in the will therefore they could charge HER rent. She since clarified that she doesn't live there so she bitching about a house that she doesn't even live at.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16283 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" You're just an ignorant woman who doesn't ... [snip!] ... Oh really now? Says the little girl who clearly doesn't know a damn thing about the laws regarding stuff like this."


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LevinOnJetPlaneDntKnoWenI Pennsylvania 1590 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... charge HER rent. She since clarified that she doesn't live there so she bitching about a house that she doesn't even live at."

Not if she doesnt live there and she has a right to b***h about his family treating her like shit for no reason.

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Levis Mommy:</b>" You're just an ignorant woman who doesn't ... [snip!] ... Oh really now? Says the little girl who clearly doesn't know a damn thing about the laws regarding stuff like this."</blockquote>



Like laws about taking things that don't belong to you? What about those ones? Petty theft I think it's called.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama2WinterGirls:</b>" Not if she doesnt live there and she has a right to b***h about his family treating her like shit for no reason."</blockquote>



Duh, hence the "she has since clarified she doesn't live there".

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... charge HER rent. She since clarified that she doesn't live there so she bitching about a house that she doesn't even live at."</blockquote>




Why shouldn't she, she goes over there obviously and used the microwave. Why shouldn't she say something? They are in a relationship and its affecting her as well.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Levis ... [snip!] ... Like laws about taking things that don't belong to you? What about those ones? Petty theft I think it's called."</blockquote>




He LET them take it and didn't care they had until she pointed out that what she uses to heat up her baby food. You might want to reread the thread.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16283 posts
Feb 6th '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... didn't care they had until she pointed out that what she uses to heat up her baby food. You might want to reread the thread."


I think she said that happened when she was there...not when he was there. And he didn't seem to care because he doesn't want to start drama and mess up the process of buying the house...at least that is what she said. Or something along those lines.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
Feb 6th '13

If he isn't willing to establish boundaries, then that's that, you have no recourse. There is no legal standing to tell them they can't enter a premises they own. Also, if the microwave was gramma's & her entire estate is joint property, taking it is rude & what not, but technically within their rights.



It seems obvious that he should cover the utlities & what not if he's the only one using them. If the house was was empty, there would be minimal to no utility bills (here we keep heat on in empty homes to prevent freezing pipes, but it is kept low). Covering your light bill is like covering your cell phone bill. It's kind of "duh" when you are the one inhabiting the home. My taxes & insurance alone are around $400/month....so if someone was living here & covering their own utilities & NOT paying me $400 - I'd be OUT each month they stayed when I could be collecting rent...and if the home isn't in his name, then the insurance & taxes are being paid by someone else....hopefully, because if not, you can loose the house ot back taxes as well & then no one would have it. There is no time when your home is just "paid off" and you have no monthly expense to just keep it - you always have taxes & insurance, forever. We have paid off our mortgage, we will always pay taxes & insurance.

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
Feb 6th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 3 little monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... didn't care they had until she pointed out that what she uses to heat up her baby food. You might want to reread the thread."</blockquote>



Guess I will because I didn't see her say he let them take it, just that he didn't care until she told him she used it.