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--- Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
6th Feb '13

thank you all so much!!!

That Elise Girl Due September 25; TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Springville, AL, United States 2927 posts
6th Feb '13

First breathe. Yall live together...whos name is your home in?

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14277 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting October Rust:"


i don't have much advice but i am so sorry you are going through. Feel free to PM me anytime at all :( That's awful.. :(

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting That Elise Girl
user banned New York 15996 posts
6th Feb '13

I'd be outta there ASAP. But I would pack uo and leave when he wasnt around so he couldnt physically hurt me. Good luck

BRiATCH ♥ 1 child; California 3499 posts
6th Feb '13

It sucks but you gotta do what you gotta do. You and your babies do not need a life like this. Get out and keep your head up hun. I'm sorry :(

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4162 posts
6th Feb '13

I'm sorry he's acting that way :( What a stupid douche!



I would put all of his shit outside and have the landlord change the locks if you can't move. f**k him.

That Elise Girl Due September 25; TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Springville, AL, United States 2927 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting October Rust:


So best thing to do, is to call close family and tell them this issue and get out. Take the kids when he isnt there.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22530 posts
status 6th Feb '13

Get out especially if he is being physically abusive or potentially physically abusive. Please for your sake and your baby girls' sake.



Second-have you thought of your options regarding the pregnancy?



Third-do not attempt to hurt yourself. I know you said that they aren't strong. Are you safe now? Do you think you could do something to yourself?

lise ♡ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 63541 posts
status 6th Feb '13

I'd be gone. No matter which one of them is being truthful. He swung at you. No woman deserves that bull.



You gotta do what is best for you and your kids <3

That Elise Girl Due September 25; TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Springville, AL, United States 2927 posts
6th Feb '13
Quoting That Elise Girl
Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
6th Feb '13

I don't have anywhere to go. I have no family nearby or friends I could stay with temporarily
And I took a hpt. I don't have insurance yet.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22530 posts
status 6th Feb '13

How far along do you think you are?



Any shelters around?



I really don't think you should stay where you're at...

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
6th Feb '13

I'm thinking I'm maybe 4 or 5 weeks along now if my cycle tracking is right.
I just talked to a good friend of mine and she's going to pick me up so we can hang out for a little bit. SO took our only car (which is in my name to work) I don't feel like I'm going to hurt myself, but my mind is swimming with the worst case scenarios of horrible things happening to me and my girls now.



I'm in school, but the daycare there only takes children age 3-5. My school is half an hour away. I have no family or friends in the town I currently live in that could watch my girls. Paying rent, utilities, car insurance, daycare, gas, food, I just don't know how I'm going to do this on my own! I'm so scared right now...especially because I wouldn't put it past him to try and take the girls from me saying that I'm unfit because I can't support them :cry:

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22530 posts
status 6th Feb '13

I'm sorry dear :( how scary. Can you stay with her?