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Annoyed. Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3778 posts
8th Feb '13

I'm so f**king glad you can spend all day with your friends, and then invite your friend home and spend all evening with him while ignoring me and your daughter. You work 6 days and the only f**king day you have off you dont spend time with your family. Well f**k you!



I wish I could hang out or go somewhere without a baby with me.

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
8th Feb '13

Maybe you should tell him this.

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3778 posts
8th Feb '13

I will be after the friend leaves.

Diam0nd InThe Dust 18 kids; New York 865 posts
8th Feb '13

Sounds like he needs to grow the hell up, Some men just aren't ready for families and the responsibilities of being a father and husband/boyfriend. Maybe you should sit down and talk to him, but if he's not making time for you and your child, give his ass the boot and teach him a lesson!

meggymama Due July 30; 97 kids; United Kingdom 510 posts
8th Feb '13

Is he at work and you're at home? If so make sure you tread carefully, If he only gets one day a week off yes he should spend it with his child and you BUT he might not realise the impact of not doing that and a 6 day week is hard going, My DH works odd shifts and diesnt get to spend much time at home and until i explained how it made us feel he genuinely had no idea and has made a MASSIVE effort since then to help me have some time 'off'

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3778 posts
8th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting meggymama:</b>" Is he at work and you're at home? If so make sure you tread carefully, If he only gets one day a week ... [snip!] ... how it made us feel he genuinely had no idea and has made a MASSIVE effort since then to help me have some time 'off' "</blockquote>




I stay at home, but also babysit two kids (plus my dd) for 5 days a week.

meggymama Due July 30; 97 kids; United Kingdom 510 posts
8th Feb '13

I wasnt saying being a SAHM is easy or that you should let him get away with it what i mean is he probably doesnt get what we do all day and because we are at home they think we are relaxed and doing as we please all day, sorry i am so tired i cant get what im trying to say accross properly. I only meant go easy because if its a discussion you have when you're angry it might not go so well x