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Annoyed. Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
8th Feb '13

I'm so fucking glad you can spend all day with your friends, and then invite your friend home and spend all evening with him while ignoring me and your daughter. You work 6 days and the only fucking day you have off you dont spend time with your family. Well fuck you!



I wish I could hang out or go somewhere without a baby with me.

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
8th Feb '13

Maybe you should tell him this.

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
8th Feb '13

I will be after the friend leaves.

Diam0nd InThe Dust 18 kids; New York 865 posts
8th Feb '13

Sounds like he needs to grow the hell up, Some men just aren't ready for families and the responsibilities of being a father and husband/boyfriend. Maybe you should sit down and talk to him, but if he's not making time for you and your child, give his ass the boot and teach him a lesson!

meggymama Due July 30; 97 kids; United Kingdom 510 posts
8th Feb '13

Is he at work and you're at home? If so make sure you tread carefully, If he only gets one day a week off yes he should spend it with his child and you BUT he might not realise the impact of not doing that and a 6 day week is hard going, My DH works odd shifts and diesnt get to spend much time at home and until i explained how it made us feel he genuinely had no idea and has made a MASSIVE effort since then to help me have some time 'off'

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3781 posts
8th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting meggymama:</b>" Is he at work and you're at home? If so make sure you tread carefully, If he only gets one day a week ... [snip!] ... how it made us feel he genuinely had no idea and has made a MASSIVE effort since then to help me have some time 'off' "</blockquote>




I stay at home, but also babysit two kids (plus my dd) for 5 days a week.

meggymama Due July 30; 97 kids; United Kingdom 510 posts
8th Feb '13

I wasnt saying being a SAHM is easy or that you should let him get away with it what i mean is he probably doesnt get what we do all day and because we are at home they think we are relaxed and doing as we please all day, sorry i am so tired i cant get what im trying to say accross properly. I only meant go easy because if its a discussion you have when you're angry it might not go so well x