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Little_Discourage 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Kansas 31494 posts
9th Feb '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Little_Discourage:</b>" I didn't say it was. I didn't see her ... [snip!] ... for other men until after I posted, considering we posted at the same time. :)"</blockquote> She stated it in the op."


Didn't see it. Just that he was talking on gay chat rooms. Thanks, though.

M O M M Y Y Due November 10; 1 child; Los Angeles, California 86 posts
9th Feb '13

I think he has always been bi but im just finding out now im still in shock... I feel like if hes just been using me this whole time as a cover up I feel like if this is all a dream and I still can't believe it.
Im going to move on though I have always been there for him threw every thing all he does is bring me down

M O M M Y Y Due November 10; 1 child; Los Angeles, California 86 posts
9th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting M O M M Y Y:</b>" I tryed talking to him he doesn't want to ... [snip!] ... :( maybe he's embarrassed you found out and now he's lashing out? I'm sorry you're going through this"</blockquote>



Thanks appreciate it.
I just needed to vent the only people that know is my mom and my sister. I wont be telling anyone that we know im not that messed up. I know hes embarrased because he always talks crap about gays & I have a gay cousin and he didn't even want to meet him because he was gay.
My mom told me that most people who are gay hate gays.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45179 posts
9th Feb '13
Quoting M O M M Y Y:" I think he has always been bi but im just finding out now im still in shock... I feel like if hes just ... [snip!] ... can't believe it. Im going to move on though I have always been there for him threw every thing all he does is bring me down"


If he is bisexual, you are not a cover-up. You are the person he fell in love with.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
9th Feb '13
Quoting M O M M Y Y:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... a gay cousin and he didn't even want to meet him because he was gay. My mom told me that most people who are gay hate gays."


most people that are gay don't hate gay ... shit you clearly haven't ever seen the Sydney Mardi Gras.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45179 posts
9th Feb '13
Quoting M O M M Y Y:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... a gay cousin and he didn't even want to meet him because he was gay. My mom told me that most people who are gay hate gays."


It's not that people who are closeted and scared to come out hate members of the LGBT community, they are just trying to hide their feelings from everyone.



They could also be lashing out because they are ashamed of themselves.