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what to do ? 1 child; 3 angel babies; Cleveland, Tennessee 3018 posts
10th Feb '13

So irk what to think of this, my bc of 5 years told me one night when we was being totally honest with each other and he says he loves me but nit inlove we have a child together who just turned 1 . We do live together too. I just feel like I've waisted my time . He's never gotten me any kind of gift such as jewelry ect and always asks what I'm going to get him . For the past two Christmases I've received nothing. Idk what to do..I love him with all my heart but I don't think he feels the same and I feel he only had my daughter with me bc he felt sorry for me bc of my losses...just lookin for opinions thanks ladies..

1 child; 3 angel babies; Cleveland, Tennessee 3018 posts
10th Feb '13

Omg there's soo many typos in that I'm terribly sorry this phone autocorrects in a dumb way..sorry ladies.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
10th Feb '13

Well he told you he is't in love with you now it is up to you what you want to do with that info. You can either stay in a loveless relationship or you can start over and find someone who truly loves you and your DD and makes you both happy.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
10th Feb '13

Material items don't matter. It's how he treats you. If he doesn't treat you right, then try counseling or leave.

BunnyGirl19 Due December 13; 3 kids; 10 angel babies; Oregon 16846 posts
status 10th Feb '13

If he doesn't want to be in a relationship I'd be looking to move on.

1 child; 3 angel babies; Cleveland, Tennessee 3018 posts
10th Feb '13

True, he was a material showing man and he says since his first gf (I'm his second )that he just feels she's made him that way. Idk its dumb. He don't want us to leave only bc of our daughter. And I have no where to go. So I feel stuck honestly.