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venttttttttt Camden&Jordyn♥ Due January 14; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; private, ca, United States 450 posts
10th Feb '13

I'm 30 weeks & As the time is counting down it's finally hitting me that I'm goin to be a mommy. This is my first baby. I wonder will he love me as much as I already love him. I'm terrified that I won't be a good mother. Once I hold this gift in my hands my life will forever change. I won't just be living for myself. I know I have a great support system but I still can't help but think like this. At 19 i honestly didnt see myself here. Married , having a step daughter , having a home and about to gove birth to my first baby.but I honestly wouldnt change it. My husband is amazing. He has been here for me in every way. I kno God really blessed me with this man.. but eventhough I have him. I'm nervous ,. I have no doubts about wanting my child. I just hope I can be the best mommy for him. Just had to get that off my chest.

Little Richard's mommie! Due July 12 (boy); 1 child; Seneca, South Carolina 4430 posts
10th Feb '13
Quoting Mel_brown:" I'm 30 weeks & As the time is counting down it's finally hitting me that I'm goin to be a mommy. This ... [snip!] ... ,. I have no doubts about wanting my child. I just hope I can be the best mommy for him. Just had to get that off my chest."

Your child already loves you :)! And just go by what I was told when I had this same worry. Because you worry that shows you are already a good mommy. That is what one woman told me to go by. I have 26 days until my LO is due, and I have worried time and time again, but now I have the ease to know. I carried him, I will be the one who will love him, and some days when he grows up he might feel like he hates me but when it comes down to it I know I will be one person he will always love and be able to depend on :)

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
10th Feb '13

All I have to say is you're still very young. I hope you're returning to school and are not making yourself dependent on this man gift from God.

Man in stockings 1 child; Colorado 2766 posts
10th Feb '13

I had the same thoughts about at about 30 weeks. My biggest fear was that I couldn't do it. But now every time my LO isn't feeling well and just wants to cuddle I'm the one he wants over my husband. I'm the one that can get him to sleep in about 5 mins, and if my husband does it our son just screams until he is handed back to me. So while I feel I could be doing even more for my son, at 4 months I know I'm his world and he loves me more than anything.

Camden&Jordyn♥ Due January 14; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; private, ca, United States 450 posts
10th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" All I have to say is you're still very young. I hope you're returning to school and are not making yourself dependent on this man gift from God. "</blockquote>




Im currently in school. I attended university but with being pregnant and having back trouble my school was kind enough to let me take online classes. So that's what im currently doing. Plus I worked up until I was 6 months. I know how to take care of myself. But when being married you work as a team. We both depend on each other.

Mason&Chloe'sMama Due April 20 (girl); 1 child; Kansas 522 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" All I have to say is you're still very young. I hope you're returning to school and are not making yourself dependent on this man gift from God. "</blockquote>




I am 19, have been married since I was 17, have a ten month old boy and am 30 weeks pregnant with my second child. I do not plan on going to college because I am a stay at home mom and plan to do that for as long as I see fit. There's nothing wrong with my age or my situation and you're very judgmental.




OP, good luck to you and congratulations!

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Mel_brown:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" All I have to say is you're still ... [snip!] ... I was 6 months. I know how to take care of myself. But when being married you work as a team. We both depend on each other."


Good luck then. :)

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" All I have to say is you're still ... [snip!] ... fit. There's nothing wrong with my age or my situation and you're very judgmental. OP, good luck to you and congratulations!"


Good for you, I don't care!
I'm just speaking what I think it's best for her.
Not being judgemental at all.
Staying in school & getting a career is the best thing she can do for herself and her children.

Mason&Chloe'sMama Due April 20 (girl); 1 child; Kansas 522 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Good for you, I don't care! I'm just speaking what I think it's best for her. Not being judgemental ... [snip!] ... being judgemental at all. Staying in school & getting a career is the best thing she can do for herself and her children."</blockquote>




In your opinion. Lots of people raised their kids as stay at home parents, sent their kids of to do what made them happy with life and then did what they wanted to do with life. Not going to college does not make you a bad parent by any means. :)

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Good for you, I don't care! ... [snip!] ... with life and then did what they wanted to do with life. Not going to college does not make you a bad parent by any means. :)"


What the f are you talking about? lol.

Little Richard's mommie! Due July 12 (boy); 1 child; Seneca, South Carolina 4430 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Good for you, I don't care! ... [snip!] ... with life and then did what they wanted to do with life. Not going to college does not make you a bad parent by any means. :)"


!!

Mason&Chloe'sMama Due April 20 (girl); 1 child; Kansas 522 posts
13th Feb '13

It's okay, you're not the last incoherent person I will come across in my lifetime.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
13th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason&Chloe'sMama:</b>" It's okay, you're not the last incoherent person I will come across in my lifetime."</blockquote>




Why don't you gtfo and stop assuming shit? I never once said not going to college made you a bad mother which is why I asked wtf you were talking about with your previous bullshit, lol.



It's not me being incoherent, is you not making f**king sense! :D

Camden&Jordyn♥ Due January 14; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; private, ca, United States 450 posts
13th Feb '13

Calm down mamas

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
13th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel_brown:</b>" Calm down mamas"</blockquote>




I'm sorry your post was turned into this.