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What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
11th Feb '13

I'd end it, remove him and those people from my life entirely and move on to better things.

Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Even pulling you out of his house, unless he was physically harming you. Legally he can remove you from ... [snip!] ... your life.. Uh uh. Grabbing your arm and taking you out of his home, or pressing your towards a door.. Within his rights."</blockquote>



Nah he was dragging me by my legs and threatening to kill me. And shit.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮ 32wks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... than or that wouldn't have happened. I know I need to move on but it's like this guy has some creep manipulated spell on me/"</blockquote>




It's MACE, not maze.



You could have left instead of using mace for no reason. Him being a douchebag doesn't give you the right to do that.

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮ 32wks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... than or that wouldn't have happened. I know I need to move on but it's like this guy has some creep manipulated spell on me/"


get over it. for yourself and your LO.
this dysfunctional as shit relationship isnt healthy to subject her to.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Even pulling you out of his ... [snip!] ... a door.. Within his rights."</blockquote> Nah he was dragging me by my legs and threatening to kill me. And shit."


That is NOT what you said in your OP. You said you freaked out on him and maced him in the face because he cheated.

Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮ 32wks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... maze. You could have left instead of using mace for no reason. Him being a douchebag doesn't give you the right to do that."</blockquote>



I'm sure if you were there you would have maced him too.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
11th Feb '13

Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:"Your boyfriend of over 2 years had some neighbors you both didn't like. And you moved out to get some space months back and to focus on you. You had plans this weekend after not seeing him for a week because he was sick and he ditches you to play video games and sleep in. Which is what he does everyday. So you're pissed because you bought lingerie, made dinner, packed your weekend bag, got your LO ready and he dips out.



You get in a fight the next day because he ditched plans with LO too because he slept until after noon. He tells you he fucked some other girl and that he wasn't sick when he said he was and drank with the neighbors. You freak out and he tells you he wa kidding they never came over and he was Trying to make you mad. You find the neighbor blocked you on fb because she posted a pic of her and her BF there. You drive over to his house to raise hell just for him to convince you the were only over for 5 min because their toilet didn't work or something.



You make up have sex. And than see the neighbor posted a picture of the girl at your SOs house the night he was 'sick'. You freak out and call him a cheater and maze him in the face. You go to the neighbors to ask what happened and they explain they came over and drank and this girl slept on the couch while they went home. But they went over a couple hours later and she was still on the couch.



WWYD?"



Right there.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮ 32wks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... douchebag doesn't give you the right to do that."</blockquote> I'm sure if you were there you would have maced him too."</blockquote>



I'm pretty sure I WOULDN'T have. I would only use mace I felt threatened. In your situation, I would've left voluntarily.

Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That is NOT what you said in your OP. You said you freaked out on him and maced him in the face because he cheated."</blockquote>




I worded it wrong. I freaked out and said I was done I said I was going yo ask the Neighbors what happened and tried to take LO's bed. He grapped it told me he was going kill me in and in the process made me fall to the floor and dragged me around. He knew I had mace on me keys and was holding it by my face all night. He sprayed it by me but not on me. I wouldn't har even thought to use it but I was glad I did.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮ 32wks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... douchebag doesn't give you the right to do that."</blockquote> I'm sure if you were there you would have maced him too."</blockquote>




Why mace him? If he's trying to drag you out of the house because you went crazy on him just leave the house in a calm manner and wait in your car, call the police and wait for them to get there so they can make him let you in to get your daughters stuff. Was your daughter there? I really hope she wasn't.

TootsMcGoots 1 child; Saskatchewan 3911 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That is NOT what you said in ... [snip!] ... holding it by my face all night. He sprayed it by me but not on me. I wouldn't har even thought to use it but I was glad I did."


Riiiight...:roll:

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That is NOT what you said in your OP. You said you freaked out on him and maced him in the face because he cheated."</blockquote>




Yeah. I'm pretty sure if he really threatened her life and physically drug her out of his house, that would've been mentioned in the OP. Of course the story changes now though.

Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
11th Feb '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... to get there so they can make him let you in to get your daughters stuff. Was your daughter there? I really hope she wasn't."</blockquote>




No my daughter wasn't there. He wa telling me he was going to kill me and was dragging me around.



He has a history of violence and a ppo files against him. He hasn't done anything to me in a long time but tonight he was being very violent.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting Had my 10/10/10 baby!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That is NOT what you said in ... [snip!] ... holding it by my face all night. He sprayed it by me but not on me. I wouldn't har even thought to use it but I was glad I did."


Yeeeaaaahhh... You mean you went crazy bitch on him and he tried to drag you out of the house because you were being nuts and you went more nuts and maced him. I'd have had your ass thrown in jail.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
11th Feb '13
Quoting tay. ☮ 32wks!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That is NOT what you said in ... [snip!] ... life and physically drug her out of his house, that would've been mentioned in the OP. Of course the story changes now though."


That's why I quoted the whole OP so if she changed it it was there :wink: